1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,709 The definition of courage is the ability to conquer fear or despair. 2 00:00:04,809 --> 00:00:10,099 In the past, we may have been called courageous or strong because we 3 00:00:10,099 --> 00:00:14,189 stayed in circumstances that were difficult or nearly unbearable. 4 00:00:14,809 --> 00:00:20,249 We may have felt that walking away from family, children, friends, relationships, 5 00:00:20,299 --> 00:00:23,189 a job was cowardly or displayed weakness. 6 00:00:23,549 --> 00:00:27,029 We may have felt that by holding back our tears, we were stronger people. 7 00:00:27,589 --> 00:00:32,580 Yet, all the things we may have viewed as weakness are really signs of courage. 8 00:00:32,789 --> 00:00:36,929 All the things we believed to be acts of courage were really not courageous at all. 9 00:00:37,259 --> 00:00:40,989 If we walked away from difficult or unbearable circumstances, 10 00:00:41,499 --> 00:00:43,649 we would be conquering despair. 11 00:00:43,970 --> 00:00:46,749 If we cried, we would have been courageous by letting go 12 00:00:46,749 --> 00:00:48,629 of our fear, pain, or sadness. 13 00:00:49,069 --> 00:00:53,519 Courage doesn't mean putting ourselves in stressful or unpleasant situations. 14 00:00:53,819 --> 00:00:56,410 Courage doesn't mean controlling our emotions. 15 00:00:56,749 --> 00:01:01,269 Courage is the ability to strengthen ourselves against the fear and despair 16 00:01:01,269 --> 00:01:03,929 of life, rather than be drowned by it. 17 00:01:06,770 --> 00:01:11,149 This came from one of my daily readers 18 00:01:11,919 --> 00:01:17,349 How many fucking times have you told yourself in the last month, just stick 19 00:01:17,349 --> 00:01:21,999 with it for longer, it'll get better, just stay at this job until that 20 00:01:21,999 --> 00:01:25,249 bonus comes through, just keep at it. 21 00:01:25,719 --> 00:01:31,759 Seeing this person or seeing them less because their family or this friendship 22 00:01:31,759 --> 00:01:39,039 I've had since I was in school, and we keep making ourselves endure 23 00:01:39,059 --> 00:01:44,339 things, which ends up costing us more. 24 00:01:44,654 --> 00:01:50,104 You know, I stayed at corporate far too long because I was like waiting for this 25 00:01:50,104 --> 00:01:52,314 like bonus check that they would dangle. 26 00:01:52,404 --> 00:01:56,244 Meanwhile, in the fine print, and I can tell you this, for any company 27 00:01:56,244 --> 00:02:01,564 based in the United States, they do not have to guarantee a bonus. 28 00:02:02,004 --> 00:02:03,604 They could take that away at any time. 29 00:02:03,604 --> 00:02:04,954 And that's why it's called a bonus. 30 00:02:05,424 --> 00:02:09,874 Yet, I would hang on for that, hang on for insurance, I'd stay far too long 31 00:02:09,874 --> 00:02:13,234 in relationships in hopes that someone would change and hope, in hopes they 32 00:02:13,234 --> 00:02:17,174 would see the light, and hopes it'd be different, and hopes I'd be in a 33 00:02:17,184 --> 00:02:21,624 different, emotional or energetic space to be able to have the strength or the 34 00:02:21,634 --> 00:02:27,004 stamina or the energy or whatever, to be able to leave or have the conversation. 35 00:02:27,264 --> 00:02:35,129 Meanwhile, You end up sinking further and further into an energetic hole and 36 00:02:35,129 --> 00:02:40,709 then wonder why you're so exhausted and feel stuck and it's all comes 37 00:02:40,739 --> 00:02:42,589 out of the space of this like. 38 00:02:43,334 --> 00:02:45,904 It's like toxic strength, right? 39 00:02:45,904 --> 00:02:50,174 That we, if we just endure it for longer and we can hold on for longer 40 00:02:50,174 --> 00:02:57,014 and have this like high pallet for being in unacceptable, damaging, 41 00:02:57,024 --> 00:03:02,714 destructive, toxic situations, we shouldn't have to endure that for 42 00:03:02,714 --> 00:03:08,654 another fucking minute, another day, another month, another moment whatsoever. 43 00:03:09,084 --> 00:03:10,204 And this has to stop. 44 00:03:10,494 --> 00:03:13,014 I have a lot more to say on this in this episode. 45 00:03:13,344 --> 00:03:13,964 So buckle up.. 46 00:03:13,964 --> 00:03:17,824 What up, my people, my posse, my fellow crazies, it's your host, Tiffany 47 00:03:17,824 --> 00:03:20,784 Carter, and this is the show that is going to help you grow your business, 48 00:03:20,784 --> 00:03:24,234 your bank account, that big, beautiful brain of yours, your abundance, your 49 00:03:24,234 --> 00:03:27,814 relationships, and everything in between. 50 00:03:28,424 --> 00:03:31,954 Let me tell you, this has been a week. 51 00:03:32,334 --> 00:03:33,334 Wow. 52 00:03:33,684 --> 00:03:38,454 This new moon situation is undeniable. 53 00:03:38,854 --> 00:03:43,314 With the wackiness, with the whole Microsoft thing going down. 54 00:03:43,694 --> 00:03:44,984 That's wild. 55 00:03:45,354 --> 00:03:50,094 And then everyone, in my project, me, posse business coaching membership on 56 00:03:50,104 --> 00:03:56,274 Friday, all of them were having crazy stuff, people acting crazy, people, 57 00:03:56,304 --> 00:04:01,594 getting fired from their jobs, people having to fire clients, betrayals. 58 00:04:02,154 --> 00:04:05,664 I mean, just insane, undeniable stuff. 59 00:04:06,114 --> 00:04:10,414 And if you're in that category, I want to remind you of something. 60 00:04:11,079 --> 00:04:17,179 When we have so much crazy stuff going on at once, this is actually. 61 00:04:17,604 --> 00:04:23,904 A green flag, not a red flag, but that's how it's easy for us to read it as that. 62 00:04:24,414 --> 00:04:27,264 Now I'm even so much further from where I want to be. 63 00:04:27,584 --> 00:04:31,644 I thought I was, four steps ahead and now it feels like I'm seven steps back. 64 00:04:32,274 --> 00:04:36,934 What's happening is when you are rising, when you are growing, when 65 00:04:36,934 --> 00:04:41,404 you are now meant to go to another level, another frequency of abundance. 66 00:04:42,484 --> 00:04:48,504 The universe comes in and says, okay, we've got to clean out some gunk that's 67 00:04:48,504 --> 00:04:54,894 keeping you at this frequency that you're at in order for you to rise and be an 68 00:04:54,914 --> 00:04:59,934 energetic match for your next level and your next level of all the things. 69 00:05:00,714 --> 00:05:05,424 So you're wanting to go where you're saying you, you want to go, which I 70 00:05:05,424 --> 00:05:11,644 believe you, but what comes with that is you are going to have to disconnect 71 00:05:11,964 --> 00:05:20,264 from outdated beliefs, habits, people, places, things that, Are past their 72 00:05:20,264 --> 00:05:25,194 expiration date that you cannot bring with you on this next level of your journey. 73 00:05:25,464 --> 00:05:27,864 Some of these things are easy to let go of. 74 00:05:28,754 --> 00:05:33,524 Some of them, you know, it's, it's taken its course, good riddance. 75 00:05:34,264 --> 00:05:39,384 But most of them are painful and what's so beautiful about whatever 76 00:05:39,384 --> 00:05:40,784 higher power you believe in. 77 00:05:40,804 --> 00:05:42,784 I, I believe in God. 78 00:05:43,154 --> 00:05:44,214 I believe in the universe. 79 00:05:44,254 --> 00:05:45,114 I believe in angels. 80 00:05:45,114 --> 00:05:48,404 Quite frankly, I believe in a lot of things. 81 00:05:48,404 --> 00:05:48,904 Okay. 82 00:05:48,904 --> 00:05:56,394 I have a full spiritual support committee and they will come in and do for you what 83 00:05:56,394 --> 00:05:58,884 you might not be able to do for yourself. 84 00:05:59,664 --> 00:06:06,154 So I have a habit and a behavior. 85 00:06:06,639 --> 00:06:12,479 That I still work on where I hold on to people for far too long. 86 00:06:13,099 --> 00:06:15,789 I am a loyalist. 87 00:06:15,869 --> 00:06:17,679 I'm, I'm overly loyal. 88 00:06:18,599 --> 00:06:23,239 Even when people have not proven to be fully loyal to me in return, I 89 00:06:23,259 --> 00:06:29,739 can get almost lazy, even something as simple as like, who does my eyebrows? 90 00:06:29,789 --> 00:06:34,089 Even if I stop liking the job they're doing, or it's just 91 00:06:34,089 --> 00:06:35,879 not feeling like a right fit. 92 00:06:36,684 --> 00:06:41,054 I, if I've been with that person for so many years, I have a hard time 93 00:06:41,054 --> 00:06:44,404 even disconnecting from that, and I know a lot of you can probably 94 00:06:44,404 --> 00:06:48,104 relate, and then it just escalates when it comes to friendships, quite 95 00:06:48,104 --> 00:06:55,024 frankly, employees, and I, my first podcast producer, I shared this in the 96 00:06:55,024 --> 00:06:58,464 posse, he actually ended up firing me. 97 00:06:58,949 --> 00:07:00,839 Which is very comical. 98 00:07:01,769 --> 00:07:06,959 I needed to fire him a year and a half prior in part ways, but I was so loyal 99 00:07:06,979 --> 00:07:08,669 because he was there from the beginning. 100 00:07:09,239 --> 00:07:13,589 Even though there were plenty of signs that I needed to. 101 00:07:14,034 --> 00:07:19,444 I was afraid to, I didn't want to deal with having to find another person. 102 00:07:19,444 --> 00:07:23,074 I like created such a story that that was going to be so 103 00:07:23,074 --> 00:07:24,854 hard to find the right person. 104 00:07:24,854 --> 00:07:26,944 And, at least I can depend on him. 105 00:07:26,944 --> 00:07:28,414 He does get the episodes out. 106 00:07:28,414 --> 00:07:31,844 It was like, wow, I was settling dip. 107 00:07:31,944 --> 00:07:38,844 Like that was my criteria for my podcast, my baby, my dream, my vision. 108 00:07:39,199 --> 00:07:41,169 How I make a lot of my money. 109 00:07:41,319 --> 00:07:45,379 My criteria was, well, you know, I know I can trust him to make 110 00:07:45,379 --> 00:07:47,009 sure like the episodes get out. 111 00:07:47,429 --> 00:07:48,209 Like what? 112 00:07:48,679 --> 00:07:50,479 That's like some of these relationships. 113 00:07:50,479 --> 00:07:51,899 I know you guys are in our friendships. 114 00:07:51,919 --> 00:07:54,599 Well, , I've known them since I was 11. 115 00:07:55,439 --> 00:07:56,769 That's not criteria. 116 00:07:56,769 --> 00:07:58,479 Or how about this other one? 117 00:07:58,759 --> 00:08:00,869 Oh, well, he's a really nice person. 118 00:08:01,139 --> 00:08:02,189 He's a good guy. 119 00:08:03,039 --> 00:08:04,349 Well, I hope so. 120 00:08:06,089 --> 00:08:10,909 That is a given or I've had employees that I've kept them around, even if they were 121 00:08:10,909 --> 00:08:16,639 doing a crappy job, but I'd be like, well, when push comes to shove, I know that 122 00:08:16,639 --> 00:08:18,939 they'll show up if there's like a crisis. 123 00:08:19,449 --> 00:08:20,719 Well, I hope they would. 124 00:08:20,719 --> 00:08:21,809 I'm paying them. 125 00:08:22,399 --> 00:08:23,379 You know what I mean? 126 00:08:23,699 --> 00:08:27,259 Like we have to really take an inventory of our stuff. 127 00:08:27,724 --> 00:08:30,424 And we sound absolutely insane. 128 00:08:30,854 --> 00:08:35,014 We hang on to stuff and it is what is holding you back. 129 00:08:35,104 --> 00:08:38,794 This is what is blocking you from going where you want to go. 130 00:08:38,814 --> 00:08:43,084 And it's very difficult to see it just within yourself. 131 00:08:43,824 --> 00:08:50,094 Another reason why if you want to really take your business and your bank account 132 00:08:50,194 --> 00:08:53,514 and that brain of yours and multiply it. 133 00:08:53,854 --> 00:08:58,994 And expand your visibility without burning out your move is to make 134 00:08:58,994 --> 00:09:04,424 the investment and show the fuck up to the rare opportunity of learning 135 00:09:04,424 --> 00:09:08,584 from me live for two days here at the beach with my entire team. 136 00:09:09,059 --> 00:09:12,889 This is taking the speed train. 137 00:09:13,549 --> 00:09:17,319 Yes, you have other options to work with me. 138 00:09:17,449 --> 00:09:21,689 Yes, you will get results as long as you show up and you follow through. 139 00:09:22,029 --> 00:09:29,349 But you want to put fuel on that and not waste any more time and get there faster? 140 00:09:29,979 --> 00:09:31,279 This is the move. 141 00:09:31,299 --> 00:09:33,339 This is not a rah rah event. 142 00:09:33,804 --> 00:09:36,924 I mean, this is what I wrote on the registration page. 143 00:09:36,974 --> 00:09:40,054 And since a lot of you are skimmers, I want to read this to you. 144 00:09:40,774 --> 00:09:44,404 There are plenty of rah rah business networking events where you go and watch 145 00:09:44,424 --> 00:09:47,494 a bunch of people speak on stage, get a dose of inspiration, maybe even get 146 00:09:47,774 --> 00:09:49,784 pumped full of information and ideas. 147 00:09:50,204 --> 00:09:54,714 But then you get home and have no idea how to prioritize, apply or implement 148 00:09:54,714 --> 00:09:58,844 the information and to clear concrete actions to significantly move the needle 149 00:09:58,844 --> 00:10:00,514 in your business and grow the damn thing. 150 00:10:01,024 --> 00:10:02,104 We've all been there. 151 00:10:02,154 --> 00:10:03,624 Am I right or am I right? 152 00:10:04,269 --> 00:10:09,229 You do not need more information or even more injections of inspiration. 153 00:10:09,429 --> 00:10:13,619 What you need is to learn how to customize and take action on proven 154 00:10:13,619 --> 00:10:19,459 growth strategies in order to get the results you desire, period, end of story. 155 00:10:19,659 --> 00:10:22,379 And that's exactly what happens. 156 00:10:23,364 --> 00:10:27,994 At my project, me, mastermind experience, the two day event, you 157 00:10:27,994 --> 00:10:29,214 can go to project me with tiffany. 158 00:10:29,424 --> 00:10:31,564 com forward slash mastermind. 159 00:10:31,964 --> 00:10:35,624 At the time of this recording, we're over a third sold out. 160 00:10:35,904 --> 00:10:41,244 There is a VIP upgrade option, and I'm letting you know this, and I 161 00:10:41,254 --> 00:10:42,984 did not check to see if it's gone. 162 00:10:43,064 --> 00:10:47,704 They, we started with five spots for it where you get to have 163 00:10:48,044 --> 00:10:52,574 a private power session with not just me, but my whole team. 164 00:10:53,079 --> 00:10:58,549 Like my entire team focused on your business and your growth and on top 165 00:10:58,549 --> 00:11:06,459 of it, you get a private session to absolutely shift things that have 166 00:11:06,459 --> 00:11:11,839 been blocking the flow of money and your relationship with money. 167 00:11:12,009 --> 00:11:16,439 With my personal subconscious mindset and energy coach, Brenda 168 00:11:16,439 --> 00:11:18,429 Johnston, like in the flesh. 169 00:11:18,619 --> 00:11:19,059 Okay. 170 00:11:19,059 --> 00:11:22,089 Like on the sand ocean front and 80 million house. 171 00:11:23,264 --> 00:11:27,574 You're going to crap when you see what I've priced it at. 172 00:11:27,614 --> 00:11:30,184 I will never price it at something like this again. 173 00:11:30,274 --> 00:11:32,994 I just intuitively went with these numbers. 174 00:11:33,264 --> 00:11:38,534 And this entire event is a tax write off because this is focused on straight 175 00:11:38,584 --> 00:11:46,184 up strategy and growth from a very well known marketing and business strategist. 176 00:11:47,014 --> 00:11:47,724 I can't wait. 177 00:11:48,264 --> 00:11:50,194 For those of you are going to make that money move. 178 00:11:50,264 --> 00:11:53,294 And if you're like, Ooh, that feels scary. 179 00:11:53,344 --> 00:11:55,214 I'm not there yet. 180 00:11:55,694 --> 00:11:58,754 And then all your stories start to come into play. 181 00:11:59,424 --> 00:12:03,914 Well, then I'm glad you're listening to this episode because I got this 182 00:12:03,984 --> 00:12:10,304 idea from having in the last two to three weeks, various people, 183 00:12:10,305 --> 00:12:13,524 strangers on the interwebs, you guys. 184 00:12:14,094 --> 00:12:19,544 DMing me and replying to my emails saying, you know, I feel like what I want is 185 00:12:19,544 --> 00:12:24,644 so far out of reach, like I'm starting to doubt it's even possible, you know, 186 00:12:24,724 --> 00:12:27,734 it doesn't seem like it's going to be in the cards for me, it's going to work 187 00:12:27,734 --> 00:12:32,929 for me, how do I know this is really possible for me, every variety of it. 188 00:12:33,699 --> 00:12:35,579 And I've been there. 189 00:12:35,999 --> 00:12:42,559 I am not, someone who came out of the womb going, I know 190 00:12:42,569 --> 00:12:45,619 that I can have whatever I want in life if I just stick to it. 191 00:12:45,639 --> 00:12:47,959 That was not the messaging I got growing up. 192 00:12:48,699 --> 00:12:51,449 I mean, I think it's beautiful when people get that messaging. 193 00:12:51,529 --> 00:12:52,819 I did not get that. 194 00:12:53,719 --> 00:12:55,979 It was, everything was the opposite. 195 00:12:56,019 --> 00:12:59,659 I was someone who can, I can be highly self critical. 196 00:12:59,939 --> 00:13:02,659 My inner critic can get very loud. 197 00:13:02,679 --> 00:13:03,829 I'm a scaredy cat. 198 00:13:04,359 --> 00:13:06,739 I'm an over thinker over analyzer. 199 00:13:06,779 --> 00:13:11,109 I am constantly looking for sources of safety and security, 200 00:13:11,349 --> 00:13:12,419 which is the opposite. 201 00:13:13,294 --> 00:13:19,644 Of what is needed for growth in order to grow in order to expand in any area 202 00:13:19,684 --> 00:13:24,444 of your life, you have to take risk, you have to bet on yourself, you have to 203 00:13:24,454 --> 00:13:29,974 do things that your nervous system all feels like are dangerous, irresponsible, 204 00:13:29,974 --> 00:13:34,709 crazy, wild, stupid, dreamlike. 205 00:13:35,609 --> 00:13:38,139 And you have to take the contrary action to it. 206 00:13:38,209 --> 00:13:42,729 I would not be where I'm at today and anyone who I've coached and anyone who I'm 207 00:13:42,729 --> 00:13:46,349 friends with anyone who I've interviewed, which, you know, there's a lot of 208 00:13:46,349 --> 00:13:53,129 interviews, you can listen to that is the common theme, but continuing to say. 209 00:13:53,574 --> 00:13:55,374 You want to have freedom level cash. 210 00:13:55,374 --> 00:13:59,774 You want to be able to travel when you want, work where you want, work how you 211 00:13:59,774 --> 00:14:04,474 want, be able to help other people, do fulfilling work, being able to monetize 212 00:14:04,474 --> 00:14:06,344 your gifts, passions, and skills online. 213 00:14:06,494 --> 00:14:10,294 You want a podcast, you want a book, you want to be able to do all these things. 214 00:14:10,314 --> 00:14:11,414 I believe you. 215 00:14:11,824 --> 00:14:15,714 And I, I know that you want that, but wanting it isn't going to cut it. 216 00:14:17,454 --> 00:14:21,754 You can want, you can wish, you can hope, you can pray, 217 00:14:21,874 --> 00:14:23,984 you can manifest all you want. 218 00:14:24,904 --> 00:14:30,214 But if your actions are not matching, unknowing. 219 00:14:30,874 --> 00:14:34,414 I know without a doubt this is available for me and I'm 220 00:14:34,414 --> 00:14:35,914 going to leave no other option. 221 00:14:36,384 --> 00:14:41,494 If you are not willing to get yourself in that energy and stay in 222 00:14:41,494 --> 00:14:45,134 there as much as much as possible, it's, it's not going to work. 223 00:14:45,164 --> 00:14:50,004 Any goal of yours, do you think any of these people who made the Olympics in 224 00:14:50,004 --> 00:14:55,344 any category, do you think for a second that they got there Cause they just 225 00:14:55,344 --> 00:14:56,854 wished, hoped, prayed, and manifest. 226 00:14:56,904 --> 00:14:59,574 I'm not saying there's not part of that. 227 00:14:59,594 --> 00:15:01,484 That's what I call passive manifesting. 228 00:15:01,734 --> 00:15:07,264 And that is a thing, but you don't will your way to winning a gold medal. 229 00:15:07,894 --> 00:15:09,844 You have to show up and train. 230 00:15:10,184 --> 00:15:15,074 You have to, they put a lot of money on the line and various coaches and trainers. 231 00:15:15,419 --> 00:15:17,889 and healers and mindset people. 232 00:15:18,239 --> 00:15:22,599 You have to, , discipline yourself to eat a certain way. 233 00:15:22,829 --> 00:15:24,729 You can't go out and party. 234 00:15:24,729 --> 00:15:26,879 So you have to discipline yourself in that way. 235 00:15:27,159 --> 00:15:28,319 You don't feel like it. 236 00:15:28,319 --> 00:15:29,959 You have to show up anyway. 237 00:15:30,339 --> 00:15:36,139 I mean, There's a lot that has to happen in order for them to get there. 238 00:15:36,249 --> 00:15:39,619 That's why they deserve like the title of Olympian. 239 00:15:40,879 --> 00:15:45,889 So you want to be an Olympian of your own life, then you've really 240 00:15:45,889 --> 00:15:50,999 got to take a hard look at yourself and go, it feels so far out of reach. 241 00:15:50,999 --> 00:15:53,009 You know why it's far out of reach. 242 00:15:53,694 --> 00:15:57,504 Because you've been you've been half taking half measures and wanting full 243 00:15:57,504 --> 00:16:00,954 measured results and I know some of you are getting maybe a little upset 244 00:16:00,954 --> 00:16:04,504 with me right now are going no Tiffany I really am doing all the things. 245 00:16:05,354 --> 00:16:05,974 Are you. 246 00:16:06,634 --> 00:16:08,244 I know it can feel that way. 247 00:16:08,294 --> 00:16:12,134 I used to say this all the time when I started my first business, 248 00:16:12,154 --> 00:16:16,634 when I was side hustling and trying to get out of corporate and 249 00:16:16,634 --> 00:16:18,624 nothing felt like it was working. 250 00:16:18,724 --> 00:16:20,314 And I was like, but I'm doing everything. 251 00:16:20,314 --> 00:16:21,624 Look at how hard I'm working. 252 00:16:21,624 --> 00:16:23,174 I'm working 12 hours a day. 253 00:16:23,174 --> 00:16:26,659 I'm doing tasks. 254 00:16:27,129 --> 00:16:32,869 And being busy is not the same as a true profitable business plan. 255 00:16:33,169 --> 00:16:36,379 I want you to look at what you're not doing in your life. 256 00:16:36,789 --> 00:16:39,369 You know what I didn't do in that first business? 257 00:16:40,009 --> 00:16:41,869 That would have changed the game for me. 258 00:16:42,159 --> 00:16:47,689 It took me five years to hire someone who actually knew what the hell they were 259 00:16:47,689 --> 00:16:52,109 doing to be able to give me perspective and see the holes in my business. 260 00:16:53,064 --> 00:16:54,714 And I was being a cheap ass. 261 00:16:55,084 --> 00:16:58,504 I was afraid to spend the money because I thought only types of business 262 00:16:58,504 --> 00:17:03,414 people who hire executive coaches or strategists or consultants were 263 00:17:03,414 --> 00:17:07,574 like big businesses like who am I to be spending that kind of money. 264 00:17:07,794 --> 00:17:11,214 I thought like I had to scrap a do it, because that's just what 265 00:17:11,214 --> 00:17:16,749 you have to do when you're like, a solopreneur, a new entrepreneur, 266 00:17:16,959 --> 00:17:18,639 you know, a small business owner. 267 00:17:18,849 --> 00:17:24,299 And sure, that is an option, but that's a very costly option. 268 00:17:24,789 --> 00:17:26,449 I ended up almost quitting. 269 00:17:26,449 --> 00:17:28,479 I ended up in pure exhaustion. 270 00:17:28,509 --> 00:17:29,659 I was not happy. 271 00:17:29,659 --> 00:17:31,269 I hated my business. 272 00:17:31,719 --> 00:17:35,609 I definitely almost quit about a million times. 273 00:17:36,129 --> 00:17:39,979 And why would I have been able to see what I was missing? 274 00:17:40,659 --> 00:17:43,659 I was never an entrepreneur before. 275 00:17:44,329 --> 00:17:48,899 How in the hell would I have known what I was doing when, when you really sit back 276 00:17:48,899 --> 00:17:50,939 and think about it doesn't make sense. 277 00:17:51,639 --> 00:17:56,509 So instead of sitting here focusing on all the things and all the tasks and 278 00:17:56,519 --> 00:18:01,029 all the busyness and all the hours and all the posts, all that stuff you're 279 00:18:01,029 --> 00:18:06,849 doing, go, okay, let's just be honest, not critical of yourself, but let's 280 00:18:06,859 --> 00:18:10,449 take a true assessment as though you're looking at like another business. 281 00:18:10,959 --> 00:18:13,939 Or you're assessing like a friend's business and not even your own 282 00:18:13,949 --> 00:18:16,209 take, take the personal out of it. 283 00:18:17,369 --> 00:18:18,969 What am I not doing? 284 00:18:19,409 --> 00:18:21,119 What am I avoiding doing? 285 00:18:22,229 --> 00:18:26,789 A lot of you avoid getting top tier guidance. 286 00:18:27,979 --> 00:18:29,459 You'll buy the courses. 287 00:18:29,974 --> 00:18:36,414 You'll buy like things that are in like that comfort zone, but you're not going 288 00:18:36,414 --> 00:18:43,284 for the top tier guidance, so then you end up spending all this money on these small 289 00:18:43,284 --> 00:18:45,484 little things that feel safer to you. 290 00:18:46,204 --> 00:18:49,094 But they don't really work because either it's not enough to hold you 291 00:18:49,094 --> 00:18:52,524 accountable to get you to show up on the days that you don't feel like it 292 00:18:52,524 --> 00:18:58,244 and it's hard or that you're spiraling and you're not getting the highest 293 00:18:58,464 --> 00:19:02,764 quality direction and advice and counsel. 294 00:19:03,004 --> 00:19:08,064 A lot of you need something that's more straightforward and customized. 295 00:19:08,284 --> 00:19:12,094 You're not setting yourself up in that way because you are 296 00:19:12,144 --> 00:19:14,264 kind of trying to get away with. 297 00:19:14,844 --> 00:19:21,164 Doing this thing without being uncomfortable, your palate for being 298 00:19:21,164 --> 00:19:28,604 uncomfortable and your ability to take action in spite of being uncomfortable 299 00:19:29,404 --> 00:19:34,074 will be the direct correlation of whether or not you're going to have 300 00:19:34,074 --> 00:19:36,084 success in any area of your life. 301 00:19:36,724 --> 00:19:38,524 To build muscle. 302 00:19:39,569 --> 00:19:41,449 Resistance is required. 303 00:19:42,269 --> 00:19:47,369 So do you think that you could have tone triceps without having even, you 304 00:19:47,369 --> 00:19:53,199 know, body resistance, tricep dips, or then going to the gym and, doing 305 00:19:53,209 --> 00:19:57,939 chest presses or whatever, like you cannot build muscle without that. 306 00:19:57,969 --> 00:20:00,989 It's no different in any area of your life. 307 00:20:01,029 --> 00:20:05,099 Like you've got to put in the reps, you've got to show up. 308 00:20:05,484 --> 00:20:11,054 And do I need to have a fitness coach at this point in my, in my life? 309 00:20:11,464 --> 00:20:14,294 Did I, would I have even needed a fitness coach 10 years ago? 310 00:20:14,514 --> 00:20:15,824 Absolutely not. 311 00:20:15,904 --> 00:20:17,674 I'm an OG gym rat. 312 00:20:18,124 --> 00:20:20,274 I've read all the magazines. 313 00:20:20,334 --> 00:20:22,844 I know I, you know, listen, I didn't go to school for it. 314 00:20:22,844 --> 00:20:23,984 I know what the hell I'm doing. 315 00:20:24,244 --> 00:20:24,704 Okay? 316 00:20:25,664 --> 00:20:26,864 But that's not enough. 317 00:20:26,894 --> 00:20:28,334 The knowledge isn't enough. 318 00:20:29,034 --> 00:20:30,554 Otherwise I won't show up. 319 00:20:31,344 --> 00:20:37,994 I and I could get injured because, I naturally we all do take a path of least 320 00:20:37,994 --> 00:20:43,974 resistance and I can get kind of lazy and maybe I think my form is good, but 321 00:20:43,974 --> 00:20:49,174 it's really not because I'm not paying attention to it and then you're injured 322 00:20:49,414 --> 00:20:53,504 and then you're taken out of the game and then that comes at a big cost. 323 00:20:53,724 --> 00:20:55,774 So it's worth it for me. 324 00:20:56,084 --> 00:21:00,744 To spend money, even on something I know what the hell I'm doing, just 325 00:21:00,744 --> 00:21:05,274 for the accountability that I know I'm going to show up three days a week, 326 00:21:05,624 --> 00:21:09,824 it's someone who I respect enough where I wouldn't want to blow off if 327 00:21:09,834 --> 00:21:14,474 I started playing games with excuses, he would absolutely say something. 328 00:21:14,804 --> 00:21:17,194 And I'm that kind of coach too, right? 329 00:21:18,044 --> 00:21:23,324 I, I'm kind and I'm here for you, but I'm also not going to let you get away 330 00:21:23,324 --> 00:21:30,924 with playing small or hiding and I'm willing to say the hard things and I say 331 00:21:30,924 --> 00:21:35,704 it in a way out of love and kindness, but I'm willing to point out your blind 332 00:21:35,704 --> 00:21:37,934 spots and those are the people I hire. 333 00:21:38,364 --> 00:21:44,094 I spend a lot of money, more money than makes even any sense to most people 334 00:21:44,094 --> 00:21:49,524 around me, except for people who are as successful as me or further along than me. 335 00:21:49,654 --> 00:21:52,014 They would all go smart move, totally get it. 336 00:21:52,034 --> 00:21:56,194 I'm doing the same, but a lot of people would think it's wild. 337 00:21:56,384 --> 00:22:03,764 I mean that I have regular coaches as monthly line items truly on 338 00:22:03,794 --> 00:22:08,074 payroll, so to speak, that that is part of my business plan. 339 00:22:08,074 --> 00:22:08,964 And you know why? 340 00:22:09,299 --> 00:22:13,569 I wouldn't show up, not because I don't love what I do, not because I don't 341 00:22:13,569 --> 00:22:18,169 give a shit about you, not because I don't love that what this money has 342 00:22:18,169 --> 00:22:26,629 afforded me in the options I've built my businesses up to a point where truly, 343 00:22:26,699 --> 00:22:29,359 I don't need to stretch any further. 344 00:22:29,389 --> 00:22:34,279 I don't have to like at a certain point, you'll have enough money, you know, 345 00:22:34,489 --> 00:22:38,119 especially when you really understand. 346 00:22:38,564 --> 00:22:43,864 The techniques and strategies I teach and then have them customized to apply them 347 00:22:43,864 --> 00:22:48,254 to your business and you do them, you'll, the money part's easy to make, truly. 348 00:22:48,794 --> 00:22:54,834 Once you have the map and you follow it, the hard part is the accountability. 349 00:22:55,264 --> 00:22:59,284 And every one of us is different on what holds us accountable to show 350 00:22:59,284 --> 00:23:00,964 up in various areas of our life. 351 00:23:01,204 --> 00:23:02,244 Some of us, it's easy. 352 00:23:02,789 --> 00:23:06,819 Right, like there's people on the outside that look at me and they go, Uh, Tiffany, 353 00:23:06,819 --> 00:23:08,349 you're always showing up on video. 354 00:23:08,349 --> 00:23:09,659 It's so easy for you. 355 00:23:10,469 --> 00:23:12,589 Yes, that is easy for me now. 356 00:23:13,939 --> 00:23:16,349 It was not easy for me in the beginning, but that was 357 00:23:16,379 --> 00:23:18,249 easier for me than most people. 358 00:23:18,794 --> 00:23:23,144 I already have a built up resistance and a muscle for that and a 359 00:23:23,144 --> 00:23:25,294 tolerance for feeling vulnerable. 360 00:23:25,564 --> 00:23:26,424 I look fat. 361 00:23:26,424 --> 00:23:27,294 I look stupid. 362 00:23:27,294 --> 00:23:28,954 My skin's horrible. 363 00:23:29,194 --> 00:23:34,424 I flubbed my words from being a former TV newscaster. 364 00:23:34,894 --> 00:23:40,294 I mean, literally, if you're really bored, you will be able to find, if you remember 365 00:23:40,294 --> 00:23:43,224 that show, America's Funniest Home Videos. 366 00:23:43,584 --> 00:23:47,864 I've been on that twice and they don't have to ask your permission to be on it 367 00:23:47,884 --> 00:23:55,074 because they take clips of newscasters from being live and usually you making 368 00:23:55,074 --> 00:23:57,264 an ass out of yourself and show those. 369 00:23:57,584 --> 00:23:58,564 Thank you so much. 370 00:24:00,624 --> 00:24:01,904 You know, like talk about. 371 00:24:03,294 --> 00:24:04,614 Talk about embarrassing. 372 00:24:04,744 --> 00:24:11,524 So I've already, that muscle has a lot of density and a lot of muscle memory, okay? 373 00:24:12,124 --> 00:24:16,014 Some of you, are very competent with your writing skills and 374 00:24:16,014 --> 00:24:17,914 you think it sounds insane. 375 00:24:18,274 --> 00:24:22,504 People in my Posse membership, by the way, we have our summer special still 376 00:24:22,504 --> 00:24:28,524 going on, so you sign up for the annual membership inside the Posse, you get my 377 00:24:28,524 --> 00:24:33,514 Nail Your Niche Masterclass for free, so people paid well over 500 to have that. 378 00:24:33,829 --> 00:24:34,669 You get that for free. 379 00:24:34,669 --> 00:24:35,839 That's the only way to get it. 380 00:24:35,869 --> 00:24:37,249 You can't buy it separately. 381 00:24:37,449 --> 00:24:41,379 Plus you get my content creation made easy course bundle as well. 382 00:24:41,619 --> 00:24:44,479 And then it comes out to being almost like 2 a day to be in the 383 00:24:44,479 --> 00:24:47,819 posse for weekly live trainings for me and other special guest experts. 384 00:24:48,249 --> 00:24:52,619 So that's designed to take you to about like zero to 15, 000 a month. 385 00:24:52,619 --> 00:24:56,579 I'd say that like conservatively, there's people in there making more, with the 386 00:24:56,609 --> 00:24:59,159 emphasis of making that money online. 387 00:24:59,159 --> 00:25:00,519 You can go to project me with tiffany. 388 00:25:00,689 --> 00:25:03,269 com forward slash project me posse. 389 00:25:03,999 --> 00:25:08,099 And then again, you want to stack the odds. 390 00:25:09,349 --> 00:25:14,539 If you want to really make an all in move and you're like, you know what, 391 00:25:15,279 --> 00:25:20,659 I totally hear what you're saying, Tiff, and I have been playing it small. 392 00:25:20,989 --> 00:25:25,199 I think I'm not, but I'm really doing all these busy activities 393 00:25:25,389 --> 00:25:27,219 because those feel safer to me. 394 00:25:27,379 --> 00:25:32,509 When all those activities, you could really cut those by 75%. 395 00:25:33,694 --> 00:25:37,804 If you just took one of the bigger ones, that feels scarier. 396 00:25:37,984 --> 00:25:40,184 This is how you make more and work less. 397 00:25:41,074 --> 00:25:43,844 Busy is not what's going to make you the bucks, honey. 398 00:25:43,914 --> 00:25:44,814 I promise you. 399 00:25:44,854 --> 00:25:46,044 I've tried that route. 400 00:25:46,054 --> 00:25:47,634 That's what will lead you to burnout. 401 00:25:48,354 --> 00:25:50,664 And you want to really do this thing. 402 00:25:50,794 --> 00:25:54,634 The move is my Project Me Mastermind experience. 403 00:25:54,634 --> 00:25:56,884 There's a reason it sells out every year. 404 00:25:57,289 --> 00:25:59,009 It's incredibly special. 405 00:26:01,179 --> 00:26:06,319 It brings me to tears when I think about what has happened since last 406 00:26:06,319 --> 00:26:08,509 year's mastermind with the attendees. 407 00:26:08,549 --> 00:26:11,849 I mean, people have launched million dollar brands. 408 00:26:12,229 --> 00:26:14,359 People's podcasts are soaring. 409 00:26:14,859 --> 00:26:19,689 we have even someone who I'm going to have on the show who decided to go 410 00:26:19,689 --> 00:26:25,139 into a whole nother level of zero fucks and pursued a dream of running for 411 00:26:25,139 --> 00:26:27,239 political office and she fucking won. 412 00:26:27,799 --> 00:26:32,419 Like a boss, we have people who have launched their public speaking career 413 00:26:32,439 --> 00:26:37,759 and are being paid people who have published books, just I could go on 414 00:26:37,759 --> 00:26:42,199 and on several people who went mega viral and are bringing in some coin 415 00:26:42,199 --> 00:26:46,539 online, but they had to take the move. 416 00:26:46,989 --> 00:26:52,409 That was a big move you're taking a lot of these small and medium moves. 417 00:26:53,084 --> 00:26:57,524 And really hoping that those are going to get you where you want to go, but 418 00:26:57,544 --> 00:27:00,754 all those are doing is keeping you busy. 419 00:27:01,425 --> 00:27:06,585 draining your energy, causing you to be frustrated because you feel like you're 420 00:27:06,725 --> 00:27:11,635 exchanging so much and not getting much in return, where I can look, I know I 421 00:27:11,635 --> 00:27:18,955 can look at most all your businesses and go 75 percent of this is vanity shit, 422 00:27:19,235 --> 00:27:22,024 nice to have shit, not important shit. 423 00:27:22,505 --> 00:27:23,765 This is what you need to do. 424 00:27:23,955 --> 00:27:30,685 It really comes down to focusing on three things, especially To get you to I would 425 00:27:30,685 --> 00:27:33,325 say a half a million a year consistently. 426 00:27:33,515 --> 00:27:37,115 So that's about what is that 40 50 grand a month. 427 00:27:37,705 --> 00:27:42,895 And then I would say to get to, a million a year, you know, to about 428 00:27:42,895 --> 00:27:45,265 like 100 like 100, 000 a month. 429 00:27:46,325 --> 00:27:50,005 I would say it's putting fuel on those three things. 430 00:27:50,015 --> 00:27:52,345 It's not doing more things. 431 00:27:52,675 --> 00:27:55,435 It's just doing them in a heightened way. 432 00:27:55,705 --> 00:27:57,585 And I'm not trying to be evasive here. 433 00:27:57,585 --> 00:28:03,405 Obviously, that's, it's way too much to teach and explain in a podcast episode. 434 00:28:03,405 --> 00:28:07,915 Which is why, obviously, I have Coaching programs and I have, and I 435 00:28:07,925 --> 00:28:13,765 have this experience for you truly I should be charging 10, 000 minimum 436 00:28:13,765 --> 00:28:16,765 for this and would greatly warrant it. 437 00:28:17,555 --> 00:28:21,965 And many people are charging 25, 000 for things where you go, you 438 00:28:21,965 --> 00:28:25,495 don't even get this shit, you walk away with some motivation. 439 00:28:26,020 --> 00:28:27,770 And some fucking shitty swag. 440 00:28:29,280 --> 00:28:31,170 We don't do shitty swag over here. 441 00:28:31,170 --> 00:28:31,640 Okay. 442 00:28:31,870 --> 00:28:33,200 So go to project me with tiffany. 443 00:28:33,390 --> 00:28:34,900 com forward slash mastermind. 444 00:28:34,900 --> 00:28:37,420 It's in the description here on project me TV on YouTube. 445 00:28:37,720 --> 00:28:42,239 And it's also in the Lincoln bio on my TikTok and Instagram 446 00:28:42,240 --> 00:28:43,850 at project me with Tiffany. 447 00:28:44,800 --> 00:28:49,910 So just take a look at, if it's, even if it's something that's in your, 448 00:28:49,970 --> 00:28:54,130 , personal life, like finding a partner and it feels so far out of reach. 449 00:28:54,130 --> 00:28:55,440 What are you really doing? 450 00:28:56,135 --> 00:28:59,825 Are you, you might be going, I'm on the apps and I'm on the dates 451 00:28:59,825 --> 00:29:01,445 and I putting myself out there. 452 00:29:02,125 --> 00:29:06,365 What are you not doing the deeper healing inner work? 453 00:29:06,655 --> 00:29:12,635 Maybe what you need to do is not fucking date and pour into doing 454 00:29:12,645 --> 00:29:14,705 inner healing work for an entire year. 455 00:29:15,245 --> 00:29:18,485 The scarier stuff, the harder stuff, sometimes the more 456 00:29:18,495 --> 00:29:20,465 financially, costly stuff. 457 00:29:21,035 --> 00:29:21,945 I know the deal. 458 00:29:21,945 --> 00:29:24,785 I've, I've done all of it too, consciously and subconsciously. 459 00:29:24,995 --> 00:29:28,545 You might have not realized you were doing this until hearing this 460 00:29:28,585 --> 00:29:31,135 episode, which is why it's important. 461 00:29:31,545 --> 00:29:34,245 You listen to someone who's going to give it to you straight. 462 00:29:34,765 --> 00:29:41,525 You know, if someone had told me this early on, I would have absolutely made 463 00:29:41,525 --> 00:29:46,465 a move, even like in my first year, I would have gone that makes so much sense. 464 00:29:46,875 --> 00:29:47,835 I get it now. 465 00:29:47,945 --> 00:29:49,815 I absolutely need to do this. 466 00:29:49,825 --> 00:29:50,775 It's an investment. 467 00:29:51,260 --> 00:29:54,270 Otherwise, you're just going to keep spinning your wheels, 468 00:29:54,300 --> 00:29:55,810 kicking the can down the road. 469 00:29:55,820 --> 00:29:57,380 And that's why a lot of people quit. 470 00:29:57,980 --> 00:30:01,810 That's why a lot of people give up because it feels like it's way too 471 00:30:01,850 --> 00:30:04,060 much work for too little in return. 472 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,120 And it doesn't have to be. 473 00:30:06,650 --> 00:30:08,640 It's all right here for you. 474 00:30:08,810 --> 00:30:11,220 I want you to think of this visual. 475 00:30:12,920 --> 00:30:17,120 Everything you want is in a universe cloud, okay? 476 00:30:17,120 --> 00:30:19,460 Like a big, fluffy, white cloud. 477 00:30:19,870 --> 00:30:21,570 What you want is there. 478 00:30:21,570 --> 00:30:21,769 It's there. 479 00:30:22,150 --> 00:30:26,370 And you know those days where you know it needs to fucking rain, you know, 480 00:30:26,370 --> 00:30:30,430 you can feel the humidity, you can feel it in the atmosphere, but it's 481 00:30:30,430 --> 00:30:32,580 like not raining, but it needs to rain. 482 00:30:32,580 --> 00:30:35,360 It's almost like an atmosphere constipation. 483 00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:38,130 That's what you have going on. 484 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,560 It's uncomfortable. 485 00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,280 There's a lot of pressure. 486 00:30:41,750 --> 00:30:43,500 It doesn't feel good. 487 00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,530 It feels heavy on you. 488 00:30:46,630 --> 00:30:47,010 And. 489 00:30:47,730 --> 00:30:55,070 And all of what you want is right there, but yet it feels so far away because 490 00:30:55,070 --> 00:31:00,955 you've put your Put yourself in a sense of, feeling helpless, feeling, 491 00:31:00,965 --> 00:31:03,335 , stuckness, feeling, Oh, I'm confused. 492 00:31:03,375 --> 00:31:04,875 I don't know what to do. 493 00:31:05,515 --> 00:31:10,295 When the reality is, is if you don't know what to do and what you're doing 494 00:31:10,295 --> 00:31:14,295 isn't working and it's not feeling good and nothing's going to feel good every 495 00:31:14,295 --> 00:31:15,755 day, I don't care what it is you do. 496 00:31:15,915 --> 00:31:19,415 You could, you could be a billionaire and have bad days. 497 00:31:21,635 --> 00:31:25,855 Then what you need is you need to invest in high quality health. 498 00:31:26,465 --> 00:31:27,715 You can't do it alone. 499 00:31:28,265 --> 00:31:35,825 That's why I hired recently a concierge health coach, because even 500 00:31:35,825 --> 00:31:41,045 though, yes, I'm very familiar of how to navigate the horrendously 501 00:31:41,045 --> 00:31:43,625 complicated US medical system. 502 00:31:44,375 --> 00:31:47,775 And yes, I have top tier insurance that I pay for. 503 00:31:48,355 --> 00:31:53,945 However, I wasn't doing it, because it's so heavy and felt like so 504 00:31:53,945 --> 00:31:58,035 much work and such a pain in the ass and I was so resentful for it. 505 00:31:58,245 --> 00:32:01,785 And then you get gaslit by a doctor and I didn't want to deal with it. 506 00:32:02,005 --> 00:32:04,045 And so I had to be honest with myself. 507 00:32:04,830 --> 00:32:09,490 So what that I have insurance so what I it should be this way it should be 508 00:32:09,490 --> 00:32:11,060 that way it shouldn't be this way. 509 00:32:11,280 --> 00:32:17,030 We can stay in the sheds all day long, but I want to take charge and take full 510 00:32:17,030 --> 00:32:21,400 ownership of my health, and I want to have what I want and I want to feel 511 00:32:21,410 --> 00:32:26,650 how I want and I want the longevity and the zest of life that I deserve and 512 00:32:26,860 --> 00:32:32,330 want my outsides to match my insides, then what's what big move am I not 513 00:32:32,370 --> 00:32:34,960 taking, and it was staring right at me. 514 00:32:35,455 --> 00:32:36,155 And I took it. 515 00:32:36,205 --> 00:32:38,105 That's why I'm saying I understand you. 516 00:32:38,235 --> 00:32:40,545 I, I, I tend to do this as well. 517 00:32:43,435 --> 00:32:45,045 And it does feel scary. 518 00:32:45,605 --> 00:32:51,395 But what is far scarier is living a life with that atmospheric cloud 519 00:32:51,535 --> 00:32:55,325 just hanging over you every damn day. 520 00:32:55,665 --> 00:33:00,615 While you're watching other people delight and play in the beautiful, 521 00:33:00,615 --> 00:33:02,645 bright, shining, shining sun. 522 00:33:03,255 --> 00:33:05,605 And they have, what you want. 523 00:33:05,940 --> 00:33:06,280 Right. 524 00:33:06,280 --> 00:33:10,140 Like, and that's why the universe shows us that even though I know it 525 00:33:10,140 --> 00:33:13,910 can trigger comparison itis, it can trigger us to like, not feel, you 526 00:33:13,910 --> 00:33:15,570 know, not feel good, all this stuff. 527 00:33:15,580 --> 00:33:19,970 But the reason why you came across me, the reason why you 528 00:33:19,970 --> 00:33:22,260 come across some other people. 529 00:33:22,845 --> 00:33:28,615 Is to show you evidence of what's in that cloud for you, it's available for you. 530 00:33:28,615 --> 00:33:30,975 In fact, it's sitting right fucking there. 531 00:33:31,135 --> 00:33:35,745 It's waiting for you to make the bigger moves for it to release it to you. 532 00:33:37,545 --> 00:33:42,775 And anytime you're feeling that atmospheric pressure that I described. 533 00:33:43,705 --> 00:33:46,485 It's because you're not making the moves. 534 00:33:46,695 --> 00:33:48,495 You're holding yourself back. 535 00:33:48,495 --> 00:33:50,405 You're trying to play it safe. 536 00:33:50,755 --> 00:33:54,575 You're taking half measures, wanting full measure results. 537 00:33:54,765 --> 00:33:56,355 You're in self will. 538 00:33:56,585 --> 00:33:57,835 It ain't gonna happen. 539 00:33:58,655 --> 00:34:00,155 It's just not going to happen. 540 00:34:01,155 --> 00:34:05,815 If you think about anyone in life, we can go back to the Olympics analogy. 541 00:34:05,945 --> 00:34:08,565 Who do you think is more likely to get the gold? 542 00:34:09,205 --> 00:34:14,775 The person who's hired the premier a team, maybe had to raise funds for it, 543 00:34:14,785 --> 00:34:16,835 maybe had to take a loan out for it. 544 00:34:17,095 --> 00:34:22,745 The person who is eating the premier food and not settling for anything less. 545 00:34:22,975 --> 00:34:25,635 The person who's putting the most on the line. 546 00:34:26,475 --> 00:34:32,335 Or is it the person who is looking for shortcuts, looking for the cheapest, 547 00:34:32,525 --> 00:34:36,385 looking for the workaround, looking for the path of least resistance, 548 00:34:36,655 --> 00:34:41,235 looking for only the easy way, the person who's only set themselves up 549 00:34:41,245 --> 00:34:45,465 where they have coaches that are fine, whether they show up or not that day, 550 00:34:46,025 --> 00:34:49,915 they have coaches that don't stretch them, or they can show up to a practice. 551 00:34:49,915 --> 00:34:54,755 And there may be at like 80%, 80 percent performance and their 552 00:34:54,755 --> 00:34:56,315 coaches let them get away with it. 553 00:34:56,945 --> 00:34:58,765 Oh, I'm my period. 554 00:34:58,775 --> 00:35:00,695 So I'm not myself today. 555 00:35:00,705 --> 00:35:05,025 It's like, , okay, well, you, this could also happen when you're in the 556 00:35:05,025 --> 00:35:07,185 Olympic village and it's time to perform. 557 00:35:07,855 --> 00:35:12,665 So you want what you say you want, like, You have people around you that 558 00:35:12,665 --> 00:35:16,055 believe in you so much that they're going to stretch you and they're 559 00:35:16,055 --> 00:35:21,565 going to push you because to think that we can just do that on our own. 560 00:35:21,995 --> 00:35:23,765 I've never met anyone like that. 561 00:35:23,795 --> 00:35:26,095 And I have interviewed a lot of people. 562 00:35:26,095 --> 00:35:32,195 I've interviewed former presidents, celebrities, business moguls, people 563 00:35:32,205 --> 00:35:34,165 from all different backgrounds. 564 00:35:34,525 --> 00:35:41,100 I have never met one person Who has succeeded on self will alone and by trying 565 00:35:41,100 --> 00:35:43,150 to find, like, the cheap and easy way out. 566 00:35:43,370 --> 00:35:47,000 Now, maybe they're Shim Sham Sharam people, okay? 567 00:35:47,290 --> 00:35:50,800 So maybe they're scams, and we've seen those people where 568 00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:52,850 it's like an Anna Delphi, okay? 569 00:35:52,930 --> 00:35:56,740 Like, yeah, but we see also what happens to them, right? 570 00:35:56,740 --> 00:36:01,630 Like, you see, there are people who do that, but you're someone who really wants 571 00:36:01,670 --> 00:36:06,900 You're not that person, and you want to do it the honest way and in integrity. 572 00:36:07,685 --> 00:36:09,235 There are no shortcuts. 573 00:36:09,795 --> 00:36:11,735 It's right here for you. 574 00:36:12,725 --> 00:36:13,955 It's waiting on you. 575 00:36:13,955 --> 00:36:15,965 It's waiting on me, you know? 576 00:36:16,265 --> 00:36:18,895 I mean how, those of you who've been listening a while and shout 577 00:36:18,895 --> 00:36:20,455 out to my long time listeners. 578 00:36:20,465 --> 00:36:25,345 Thank you for helping make the show top 5 in 57 countries. 579 00:36:26,455 --> 00:36:27,125 I'm blown away. 580 00:36:27,125 --> 00:36:30,875 One of my favorite entertaining podcasts I listen to is the 581 00:36:30,875 --> 00:36:37,934 cancelled podcast and I have a higher percentage and listener rate on it. 582 00:36:38,515 --> 00:36:42,025 Then the show and this shows like mega and I was like, what? 583 00:36:42,955 --> 00:36:43,905 I had no idea. 584 00:36:43,905 --> 00:36:45,205 I just found that out this week. 585 00:36:45,225 --> 00:36:47,905 I was like, wow, that's incredible. 586 00:36:48,605 --> 00:36:50,485 But look what I had to do to get here. 587 00:36:50,485 --> 00:36:53,095 Not not work myself to the bone. 588 00:36:54,115 --> 00:36:55,755 That's not a business strategy. 589 00:36:56,385 --> 00:36:57,755 I had to set it up. 590 00:36:58,165 --> 00:37:02,365 So nothing else was an option, but success. 591 00:37:02,585 --> 00:37:03,695 There is no option. 592 00:37:04,240 --> 00:37:09,770 I showed up, I do the thing, I invest in the thing, I invest in the accountability, 593 00:37:09,980 --> 00:37:16,640 I show up regardless, and I'm not dependent on constant external validation. 594 00:37:17,130 --> 00:37:21,330 You're dependent on that external validation to keep going, you're fucked. 595 00:37:21,880 --> 00:37:22,990 Cause it's not gonna happen. 596 00:37:23,700 --> 00:37:24,510 It's just not. 597 00:37:25,430 --> 00:37:28,630 Like, I would love that. 598 00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:29,570 That's amazing. 599 00:37:29,570 --> 00:37:32,840 And I love that you guys take the time to write the reviews and I 600 00:37:32,850 --> 00:37:34,410 love that you shout the show out. 601 00:37:34,430 --> 00:37:36,250 And I so appreciate that. 602 00:37:36,430 --> 00:37:39,460 And that helps the show grow and it helps it get out to more people. 603 00:37:39,460 --> 00:37:41,340 So I really appreciate you doing that. 604 00:37:41,880 --> 00:37:45,380 But like, then there's also times when your business revenue is down 605 00:37:45,650 --> 00:37:50,940 when your, downloads are, are off, you know, when you have a launch 606 00:37:51,060 --> 00:37:53,970 that didn't do as well as you hoped. 607 00:37:55,015 --> 00:37:58,285 Where are you going to get the motivation then if it's all dependent 608 00:37:58,295 --> 00:38:04,235 externally, you've got to trust that this is all happening for a divine 609 00:38:04,315 --> 00:38:10,125 reason, your greatest good, a divine purpose, and that leave no option. 610 00:38:10,765 --> 00:38:12,575 It absolutely will work. 611 00:38:12,585 --> 00:38:16,515 It's just not going to work in your exact way and your exact timeframe. 612 00:38:16,715 --> 00:38:19,405 And often it's that we need to get out of our own damn way. 613 00:38:20,055 --> 00:38:23,105 And I was in my own damn way when it came to my health. 614 00:38:23,635 --> 00:38:24,835 I'm a stubborn ass. 615 00:38:25,480 --> 00:38:32,040 And it took me a while to get there, and I finally said, you know what, fuck it. 616 00:38:33,270 --> 00:38:33,990 I need help. 617 00:38:34,010 --> 00:38:35,380 I'm waving the white flag. 618 00:38:36,280 --> 00:38:37,650 I'm in my own way. 619 00:38:37,970 --> 00:38:39,080 We're making moves. 620 00:38:39,700 --> 00:38:43,240 There is no other option but optimal health, period, end of 621 00:38:43,240 --> 00:38:44,640 story, and that's what I deserve. 622 00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:49,640 And that's what you deserve is the abundance in all areas of your life. 623 00:38:50,130 --> 00:38:51,160 So what is it? 624 00:38:52,115 --> 00:38:55,585 That you have not done, and that you're not doing. 625 00:38:56,555 --> 00:38:59,785 That you're making excuses as to why you can't do it, or I'll 626 00:38:59,785 --> 00:39:02,405 wait until blank until I do it. 627 00:39:02,915 --> 00:39:03,955 That's the move. 628 00:39:04,265 --> 00:39:05,905 That's the thing that you need to do. 629 00:39:06,955 --> 00:39:09,895 Wishing you great health, wealth, and worth as always. 630 00:39:10,310 --> 00:39:11,170 Love you. 631 00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:14,130 Go make a move right now. 632 00:39:14,180 --> 00:39:17,530 At least go look at the information page, project me with tiffany. 633 00:39:17,750 --> 00:39:20,230 com forward slash mastermind. 634 00:39:20,240 --> 00:39:23,660 And then the summer sale and the posse is project me with tiffany. 635 00:39:23,830 --> 00:39:25,520 com forward slash project me posse. 636 00:39:25,730 --> 00:39:28,460 All links are in the description here on project me to be on YouTube. 637 00:39:28,480 --> 00:39:30,170 Make sure you're subscribed over here. 638 00:39:30,170 --> 00:39:32,670 We have some amazing new episodes coming that you're going to 639 00:39:32,670 --> 00:39:34,390 actually want to visually see it. 640 00:39:35,055 --> 00:39:37,235 And they're in the Lincoln bio. 641 00:39:37,235 --> 00:39:40,845 So follow me on Tik TOK and Instagram at Project Be With Tiffany.