1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:03,560 You know those perfect manifestation stories, the one where someone sat 2 00:00:03,560 --> 00:00:07,479 in their perfectly zen room, did their morning routine flawlessly, and 3 00:00:07,479 --> 00:00:09,949 magically manifested their dream life? 4 00:00:10,419 --> 00:00:13,169 Yeah, this isn't one of those stories. 5 00:00:13,399 --> 00:00:16,309 Welcome to Real World Manifestation. 6 00:00:16,400 --> 00:00:19,639 Where kids are screaming in the background, your bank account isn't quite 7 00:00:19,639 --> 00:00:23,499 aligned with your vision board, and your ex just texted you, we need to talk. 8 00:00:23,799 --> 00:00:26,029 This is for the messy manifestors. 9 00:00:26,359 --> 00:00:29,879 For the people going through a true mess in their mind, 10 00:00:29,899 --> 00:00:31,319 mess in their life right now. 11 00:00:31,549 --> 00:00:35,400 The ones trying to align their chakras while dealing with chaos. 12 00:00:35,709 --> 00:00:38,619 The ones wondering if they can still attract abundance when their 13 00:00:38,619 --> 00:00:43,559 life looks more like a hurricane or like a full war zone like here 14 00:00:43,559 --> 00:00:45,899 in Los Angeles than a Zen garden. 15 00:00:47,050 --> 00:00:52,770 Here's the truth they don't tell you in those pristine manifestation masterclasses 16 00:00:53,010 --> 00:00:55,460 or in tons of the content that you see. 17 00:00:56,145 --> 00:00:59,485 Magic doesn't need perfect conditions to work. 18 00:00:59,955 --> 00:01:02,885 Sometimes, the mess itself is the magic. 19 00:01:03,355 --> 00:01:08,904 Sometimes, the chaos is the catalyst that propels you to your manifestations 20 00:01:08,904 --> 00:01:10,455 faster than anything else. 21 00:01:11,235 --> 00:01:14,835 This episode, I'm going to show you exactly how to transmute 22 00:01:14,875 --> 00:01:16,635 your chaos into creation. 23 00:01:16,975 --> 00:01:19,564 How to find the abundance portal in your anxiety. 24 00:01:19,805 --> 00:01:23,994 How to manifest magic, not despite your mess, but through it. 25 00:01:24,184 --> 00:01:27,894 Because let's be real, if you're waiting for perfect conditions to start 26 00:01:27,904 --> 00:01:30,424 manifesting, you'll be waiting forever. 27 00:01:30,795 --> 00:01:32,875 This is real world manifestation. 28 00:01:33,205 --> 00:01:34,355 This is magic. 29 00:01:34,420 --> 00:01:35,499 Whew! 30 00:01:40,599 --> 00:01:43,979 What up, my people, my posse, my fellow crazies. 31 00:01:44,009 --> 00:01:46,929 It's your host, Tiffany Carter, and this is the show that is going to help you 32 00:01:46,929 --> 00:01:50,309 grow your business, your bank account, that big, beautiful brain of yours, 33 00:01:50,559 --> 00:01:52,369 your abundance, your relationships. 34 00:01:52,519 --> 00:01:54,919 and everything in between. 35 00:01:55,669 --> 00:02:00,349 I first want to say thank you so much to everyone from all over the 36 00:02:00,349 --> 00:02:04,309 world who's been checking on me and just checking in general on what they 37 00:02:04,309 --> 00:02:09,599 can do on the people of Los Angeles being affected by the wildfires. 38 00:02:09,619 --> 00:02:14,129 And I have come up with something where you can no matter where you are 39 00:02:14,129 --> 00:02:19,719 in the world for every single written Apple podcast review of the show. 40 00:02:20,059 --> 00:02:25,229 I am going to personally donate a hundred dollars to animal charities and non 41 00:02:25,229 --> 00:02:30,289 profits that are helping rehouse animals That have been left behind or where people 42 00:02:30,289 --> 00:02:35,249 can't take them to shelters and for all of the countless surgeries That need to be 43 00:02:35,249 --> 00:02:40,789 done on the wildlife that is continuing to be rescued Out of the rubble of the fires 44 00:02:40,789 --> 00:02:47,029 where they are burned They have Missing wings and so many other things that I've, 45 00:02:47,179 --> 00:02:49,069 I'm sure you've seen on social media. 46 00:02:49,339 --> 00:02:51,079 I'm not putting any cap on this. 47 00:02:51,079 --> 00:02:54,769 So if you are appreciating the show in this episode and you share 48 00:02:54,769 --> 00:02:57,929 this to people on your team or with your friends or with your family. 49 00:02:58,309 --> 00:03:01,449 Literally, every single review will do this. 50 00:03:01,479 --> 00:03:04,939 Now, if you have no access to Apple podcasts, like you're strictly like a 51 00:03:04,939 --> 00:03:10,269 Spotify person, or a YouTube person, as long as you're subscribed to YouTube, you 52 00:03:10,269 --> 00:03:15,229 tap the five stars on Spotify, you take a screenshot of the episode, and share 53 00:03:15,229 --> 00:03:20,169 it in your Instagram, Facebook stories, share it on Tick Tock, and you tag me 54 00:03:20,169 --> 00:03:24,669 at project me with Tiffany, I will count that as a review and also donate it. 55 00:03:24,899 --> 00:03:30,414 I will be sharing how we are fundraising over in my Instagram stories. 56 00:03:30,414 --> 00:03:35,654 And then of course I will share and tag the organizations that I donate to. 57 00:03:35,864 --> 00:03:41,404 The reason I'm not sharing which organizations now is certain organizations 58 00:03:41,434 --> 00:03:44,069 are actually saying We have enough. 59 00:03:44,159 --> 00:03:49,529 Please donate to another organization in need and it changes so rapidly here. 60 00:03:49,779 --> 00:03:54,699 And I also need some time to be able to vet these places as well because 61 00:03:54,709 --> 00:03:59,509 sadly when there are catastrophic events It brings out a lot of evil in 62 00:03:59,509 --> 00:04:04,774 people, but it also brings out the most beautiful traits of people as well. 63 00:04:04,844 --> 00:04:06,724 And we're seeing both sides of that. 64 00:04:06,924 --> 00:04:11,144 So please, even if you have to pause right now, go leave a written 65 00:04:11,144 --> 00:04:12,684 podcast review on Apple podcasts. 66 00:04:12,714 --> 00:04:15,994 If you don't know how to do it, you can literally Google it and 67 00:04:15,994 --> 00:04:20,774 a video will come up showing you exactly how to do that for the show. 68 00:04:20,774 --> 00:04:26,904 What I'm about to say is going to sound crazy to your brain to the point 69 00:04:26,904 --> 00:04:28,744 where you might not want to believe it. 70 00:04:29,344 --> 00:04:34,124 But I want to have you quickly do a mental adjustment so you can 71 00:04:34,124 --> 00:04:35,914 get the most out of this episode. 72 00:04:36,924 --> 00:04:40,034 Choosing to not believe what I'm saying. 73 00:04:40,484 --> 00:04:44,154 to be truth when I have the receipts to back it up. 74 00:04:44,634 --> 00:04:46,844 How is that benefiting you in any way? 75 00:04:47,524 --> 00:04:50,984 For you to lean in and go, Oh, it sounds like hocus pocus. 76 00:04:51,024 --> 00:04:52,374 Oh, that's not true for me. 77 00:04:52,424 --> 00:04:54,494 Oh, it's too good to be true. 78 00:04:55,074 --> 00:04:56,594 That is hurting you. 79 00:04:56,604 --> 00:04:57,604 It's not helping you. 80 00:04:57,614 --> 00:04:58,774 It's not serving you. 81 00:04:59,154 --> 00:05:04,014 So instead, ask yourself, or at least allow yourself to be in the mindset 82 00:05:04,014 --> 00:05:08,104 while listening to this episode of what if that is true for me? 83 00:05:08,659 --> 00:05:11,279 You don't even have to be in an absolute for this to work, 84 00:05:11,279 --> 00:05:13,365 but at least open the window. 85 00:05:13,719 --> 00:05:17,449 Your front door might not be open yet, but open the damn window 86 00:05:17,449 --> 00:05:19,999 of what if this is true for me? 87 00:05:20,179 --> 00:05:25,699 How about I allow myself to be open to the possibility that even in the 88 00:05:25,699 --> 00:05:30,709 messiness state of my life right now, or this one particular area of my 89 00:05:30,709 --> 00:05:38,349 life right now, that this, is actually something that is propelling me closer and 90 00:05:38,349 --> 00:05:42,499 faster to the desired life that I want. 91 00:05:43,649 --> 00:05:46,359 Why not believe that even for this episode? 92 00:05:46,369 --> 00:05:47,479 Even for today? 93 00:05:47,509 --> 00:05:48,779 Even for this hour? 94 00:05:48,789 --> 00:05:50,009 Even for this week? 95 00:05:50,729 --> 00:05:52,799 There, you have nothing to lose by doing that. 96 00:05:53,480 --> 00:05:55,129 So hear me when I say this. 97 00:05:55,989 --> 00:05:59,599 Your mess is actually accelerating your manifestations. 98 00:06:00,919 --> 00:06:05,949 This can sound to you right now who is in an acute situation. 99 00:06:06,299 --> 00:06:10,109 Maybe you're one of my fellow people in Los Angeles who has lost their home in a 100 00:06:10,109 --> 00:06:14,689 fire and you've come to this episode in order to be distracted in order to have 101 00:06:14,689 --> 00:06:17,729 some non toxic positivity in your life. 102 00:06:17,909 --> 00:06:21,799 Maybe you're going through a nasty, nasty custody battle or you've lost 103 00:06:21,809 --> 00:06:23,649 a loved one or you've lost your job. 104 00:06:24,104 --> 00:06:27,904 Or your business is not doing well and you're like months away from 105 00:06:27,904 --> 00:06:29,554 bankruptcy, whatever it could be. 106 00:06:29,554 --> 00:06:32,504 Or you're just in a bad way because you're a fellow person with 107 00:06:32,514 --> 00:06:36,904 complex PTSD and major depressive disorder and you are in an episode. 108 00:06:37,494 --> 00:06:42,514 All right, like you, it can seem like, who are you to tell me? 109 00:06:42,524 --> 00:06:46,454 Like look at all this devastation and look at all this going on and all of this. 110 00:06:47,384 --> 00:06:51,334 I'm not saying you have to sit here and be happy about what's happening in your 111 00:06:51,334 --> 00:06:56,184 life or even sit there and go, I'm so grateful my house burned to the ground. 112 00:06:56,184 --> 00:06:57,955 That is terribly toxic. 113 00:06:57,974 --> 00:06:59,345 I don't want you to do that. 114 00:06:59,935 --> 00:07:05,475 But what I am wanting you to challenge your brain to do is where could 115 00:07:05,595 --> 00:07:09,164 this be potentially propelling me. 116 00:07:09,645 --> 00:07:16,085 Into a direction I didn't even know is possible in my life to where 117 00:07:16,115 --> 00:07:22,805 I'm needing to rebuild whether it's literally or it is emotionally or it 118 00:07:22,805 --> 00:07:29,164 is physically, you know, I am rising from the ashes, pun intended, right? 119 00:07:29,165 --> 00:07:36,245 Like I had a major ego death around my birthday in September 120 00:07:36,255 --> 00:07:38,995 shout out my fellow Virgos and. 121 00:07:39,510 --> 00:07:41,850 It 2024 was not cute for me. 122 00:07:41,850 --> 00:07:47,830 Okay, it was my most abundant year financially, and it was one of my 123 00:07:47,830 --> 00:07:54,290 hardest, most painful years, personally, and also physically, both can exist 124 00:07:54,290 --> 00:07:58,730 at the same time, you can be going through the shit in your business. 125 00:07:59,220 --> 00:08:01,810 and also meet the love of your life. 126 00:08:02,200 --> 00:08:11,500 You can also be thriving in your relationships and be going through painful 127 00:08:11,509 --> 00:08:15,079 lessons in your business or your health. 128 00:08:15,600 --> 00:08:21,210 So all things don't have to be abundant for your manifestations to come through. 129 00:08:21,930 --> 00:08:25,970 But what is happening also has a blessing in it. 130 00:08:26,339 --> 00:08:28,610 There is a blessing in the shit. 131 00:08:29,070 --> 00:08:32,160 That doesn't mean I want you to discount your feelings and 132 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:32,980 what you're going through. 133 00:08:32,980 --> 00:08:38,010 In fact, I want you to honor them, but sitting in them day in and day 134 00:08:38,010 --> 00:08:44,859 out puts you in this dark, victim, scarcity, helpless mentality, and 135 00:08:44,859 --> 00:08:48,244 then you sink further and further into it and you get more and more scared. 136 00:08:48,295 --> 00:08:51,105 stuck and it gets harder and harder to get out. 137 00:08:51,135 --> 00:08:55,925 And I want this to be an episode you can come back to time and time again and 138 00:08:55,925 --> 00:09:01,695 share with anyone who is going through the shits so that we can help you get out 139 00:09:01,695 --> 00:09:08,389 of it, but not in a toxic, insensitive way to where you're ignoring the truth. 140 00:09:08,550 --> 00:09:11,865 your own reality because that just doesn't work. 141 00:09:12,980 --> 00:09:17,890 So when I was in this ego death, and if you're not, if you're not familiar 142 00:09:18,240 --> 00:09:20,090 with it, here's what I say about them. 143 00:09:20,140 --> 00:09:21,730 It's kind of like an orgasm. 144 00:09:21,910 --> 00:09:24,800 If someone asked me like, what does an orgasm feel like? 145 00:09:24,809 --> 00:09:25,720 You've never had one. 146 00:09:26,170 --> 00:09:30,770 If you have to ask what an ego death is like, trust me, you've never had one. 147 00:09:31,290 --> 00:09:34,430 It is, it rocks you to the core to your knees. 148 00:09:34,430 --> 00:09:36,150 You've been contemplate your life. 149 00:09:36,150 --> 00:09:36,200 Trust. 150 00:09:36,710 --> 00:09:43,990 That's usually involved my last episode I did with my guest co host Regina Lawrence, 151 00:09:44,820 --> 00:09:49,390 we both talk about and describe ego dust because we both had them in 2024. 152 00:09:50,580 --> 00:09:58,130 We get brought to our knees so that we can rebuild differently so we can 153 00:09:58,140 --> 00:10:04,400 be redirected and go into a direction that the universe is wanting us 154 00:10:04,420 --> 00:10:08,490 to go in for the greater good of ourselves, our families and the world. 155 00:10:09,099 --> 00:10:12,310 And we don't have the grand plan newsflash. 156 00:10:12,460 --> 00:10:14,320 We can think we're in control. 157 00:10:14,430 --> 00:10:16,810 We can think we put it on our vision board. 158 00:10:16,810 --> 00:10:18,080 We set our intentions. 159 00:10:18,289 --> 00:10:19,699 We want to manifest this thing. 160 00:10:19,699 --> 00:10:20,870 We have goals. 161 00:10:21,095 --> 00:10:26,005 That's beautiful to have those, but you have to leave space for the universe, 162 00:10:26,015 --> 00:10:31,535 for a God of your understanding, for your angels, for your spiritual committee to 163 00:10:31,595 --> 00:10:39,294 delight you, to direct you, to put you where you need to be so that it gets 164 00:10:39,295 --> 00:10:42,055 to be better than you even imagined. 165 00:10:42,710 --> 00:10:45,190 Because we can only imagine so much. 166 00:10:45,980 --> 00:10:53,100 I never imagined that I would have this podcast helping millions of people make 167 00:10:53,130 --> 00:10:58,500 millions and helping millions of people heal and being able to do something that 168 00:10:59,020 --> 00:11:02,110 doesn't even feel like work on most days. 169 00:11:02,120 --> 00:11:06,235 Some days everything feels like work, but most days it doesn't feel like work. 170 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:10,139 I get to do this while looking out at the ocean. 171 00:11:10,330 --> 00:11:17,519 I get to have expendable income right now to be able to donate to help the 172 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:22,370 animals and the people of Los Angeles who have lost everything in the fires. 173 00:11:23,445 --> 00:11:28,675 That's why I keep telling you guys who have businesses who are doing things 174 00:11:28,675 --> 00:11:32,905 where you're feeling uncomfortable about putting content out there and showing up 175 00:11:32,905 --> 00:11:36,924 and you have a hard time showing up when you're in the mess in your life and you 176 00:11:36,924 --> 00:11:39,494 don't want to show up in that way because it's vulnerable or you don't want to 177 00:11:39,494 --> 00:11:41,740 come across as sensitive or you want it. 178 00:11:41,760 --> 00:11:43,290 You're protecting yourself. 179 00:11:43,290 --> 00:11:44,830 You know, you're guarding your energy. 180 00:11:44,830 --> 00:11:49,080 What I have to say to you is find some way that you can show up. 181 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,780 You might not be at your best, okay, but you don't have to show 182 00:11:52,780 --> 00:11:55,029 up as your best to manifest. 183 00:11:55,029 --> 00:11:58,910 You don't have to show up as your best to manifest millions of dollars. 184 00:11:59,089 --> 00:12:02,450 You don't have to show up as your best to attract beautiful people 185 00:12:02,450 --> 00:12:03,920 in your life and to help people. 186 00:12:04,310 --> 00:12:11,085 In fact, what's amazing when I show up at my worst, And you listen 187 00:12:11,085 --> 00:12:15,245 to my episodes from 2024, okay? 188 00:12:16,075 --> 00:12:19,545 Many, many, many days I was at my worst. 189 00:12:19,565 --> 00:12:22,555 I'm talking suicidal ideation, okay? 190 00:12:22,565 --> 00:12:27,735 Not where I was going to do anything, but ruminated about it, ruminated about it. 191 00:12:27,765 --> 00:12:30,595 Emergency therapy sessions, okay? 192 00:12:31,015 --> 00:12:33,275 And I don't have to share all my stuff. 193 00:12:33,275 --> 00:12:35,005 That's not always healthy to do. 194 00:12:35,265 --> 00:12:39,095 But I didn't come on here You know, my listeners know that I didn't 195 00:12:39,095 --> 00:12:40,535 come on here and fake it with you. 196 00:12:40,625 --> 00:12:46,035 There's little literal episodes where I started it by saying, I am not doing well. 197 00:12:46,435 --> 00:12:51,225 And I'm coming on here solely to prove to you that even when you're not at 198 00:12:51,225 --> 00:12:55,055 your best, but you are committed to showing up as the best you can on any 199 00:12:55,055 --> 00:12:59,615 given day for yourself and for your manifestations, and for the people you 200 00:12:59,625 --> 00:13:02,055 serve, that that is more than enough. 201 00:13:02,075 --> 00:13:06,190 And you'll be surprised because you're Ego will tell you it's not enough. 202 00:13:06,420 --> 00:13:08,090 No one wants to see you like that. 203 00:13:08,100 --> 00:13:10,540 No one wants to be around you when you look like that. 204 00:13:10,840 --> 00:13:12,620 Oh, well, you don't have it together. 205 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:16,369 Like no one wants to, no one's going to want to hire you because 206 00:13:16,369 --> 00:13:19,309 of this, that or the other and all the other things that that is. 207 00:13:19,380 --> 00:13:22,240 Ego of yours gaslights you into believing. 208 00:13:22,890 --> 00:13:27,260 You want to know what episodes of mine, what pieces of content of mine, what 209 00:13:27,270 --> 00:13:31,399 emails I've sent out in my secret posse weekly digest, which you absolutely 210 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,109 need to be in my email community. 211 00:13:33,520 --> 00:13:38,139 Like there's a reason why my open rate is 54 percent on average, which 212 00:13:38,140 --> 00:13:40,990 is unheard of in this industry. 213 00:13:40,990 --> 00:13:43,500 And you can swipe up and go on the show notes. 214 00:13:43,670 --> 00:13:45,450 To join for free. 215 00:13:45,450 --> 00:13:46,600 It's project me with tiffany. 216 00:13:46,810 --> 00:13:51,980 com forward slash secret posse to access that that's different 217 00:13:51,980 --> 00:13:54,870 than my project me posse business and money coaching membership. 218 00:13:54,870 --> 00:13:55,250 Okay. 219 00:13:55,250 --> 00:13:59,699 And there could be a handful of spots that are open of new members right now. 220 00:13:59,700 --> 00:14:03,889 I'm not sure, but I've also included that link in the show notes and here in the 221 00:14:03,889 --> 00:14:06,390 description on YouTube on project me TV. 222 00:14:06,860 --> 00:14:07,210 And. 223 00:14:07,650 --> 00:14:10,150 That's like a next level and working with me. 224 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:16,290 You also will get by joining and I'm showing it here on YouTube. 225 00:14:16,480 --> 00:14:19,869 You're getting, when you join my Project Me Posse business coaching 226 00:14:19,870 --> 00:14:25,130 membership, you get my content creation made easy course bundle for free. 227 00:14:25,459 --> 00:14:30,590 Like this is when, if you're someone who's going, where do I even begin with content? 228 00:14:31,085 --> 00:14:35,285 To start making money with my content or start making money and getting 229 00:14:35,285 --> 00:14:39,675 clients and getting leads and getting sales and getting gigs For even 230 00:14:39,675 --> 00:14:41,715 my physical in person business. 231 00:14:41,715 --> 00:14:42,574 You could be a realtor. 232 00:14:42,574 --> 00:14:46,265 You could be a practitioner You could be a yoga instructor. 233 00:14:46,265 --> 00:14:48,795 You could have some kind of a beauty company. 234 00:14:48,924 --> 00:14:51,174 You could have a retail store You can have an e commerce store. 235 00:14:51,174 --> 00:14:51,974 You can be a coach. 236 00:14:52,174 --> 00:14:57,370 This works for literally every industry And this is my exact 237 00:14:57,400 --> 00:14:58,930 content planner that I use. 238 00:14:58,930 --> 00:14:59,890 So it's printable. 239 00:14:59,890 --> 00:15:02,110 So you can print it out at home or go somewhere to print it. 240 00:15:02,535 --> 00:15:06,095 Plus you have like the video training, you have my fill in the blank 241 00:15:06,165 --> 00:15:10,045 content, caption template because I know a lot of you get stuck on 242 00:15:10,045 --> 00:15:13,405 those captions, like what do I put in the caption and what do I do here? 243 00:15:13,955 --> 00:15:16,925 I have given you a starting point for free. 244 00:15:17,040 --> 00:15:22,340 When you join the posse, so you can do the annual membership, which is ends up 245 00:15:22,340 --> 00:15:26,660 being 2 a day because you get two months for free or for my commitment phobes. 246 00:15:26,660 --> 00:15:27,960 You can do my month to month. 247 00:15:28,289 --> 00:15:31,449 I don't know how many spots are left or any are left. 248 00:15:31,449 --> 00:15:33,549 You can just check back every couple of days. 249 00:15:33,550 --> 00:15:36,190 If when you go on the page to sign up, it says full. 250 00:15:36,589 --> 00:15:40,510 So are going my link in the show notes and you can also 251 00:15:40,510 --> 00:15:41,680 go to project me with tiffany. 252 00:15:41,860 --> 00:15:46,919 com forward slash project me posse so all of these ways to work with 253 00:15:46,920 --> 00:15:52,379 me are inside the show notes my free resources and the paid ways to do so 254 00:15:52,379 --> 00:15:55,579 so I want you to ask yourself, Another question. 255 00:15:55,619 --> 00:15:59,919 Even better, if you write about it, but I also understand you might be in a 256 00:15:59,919 --> 00:16:03,359 state right now where you don't even have the energy or capacity to write about 257 00:16:03,359 --> 00:16:05,059 it, and I'm very realistic about that. 258 00:16:05,379 --> 00:16:09,559 I used to literally not work with any therapist who would tell me to journal. 259 00:16:09,569 --> 00:16:11,039 I'd be like, go fuck yourself. 260 00:16:11,609 --> 00:16:14,579 I can barely feed and bathe myself, I'm not gonna journal. 261 00:16:14,999 --> 00:16:16,049 But, guess what? 262 00:16:16,069 --> 00:16:20,339 The truth comes out when you write, when you write pen to paper, especially. 263 00:16:20,859 --> 00:16:26,149 So, I make a big point of journaling now because you'll even shock yourself at 264 00:16:26,149 --> 00:16:29,439 what comes out when you write things. 265 00:16:30,209 --> 00:16:36,804 I want you to ask yourself, where could this be redirecting me to? 266 00:16:37,554 --> 00:16:39,354 with whatever you have going on. 267 00:16:39,524 --> 00:16:42,024 You are clearly being redirected. 268 00:16:42,244 --> 00:16:43,304 Where could this be? 269 00:16:43,304 --> 00:16:45,494 You're just getting curious is all. 270 00:16:46,314 --> 00:16:48,604 Where could this be redirecting me to? 271 00:16:48,634 --> 00:16:52,644 Could it be redirecting me to moving to another city, 272 00:16:52,644 --> 00:16:54,544 another country, another state? 273 00:16:55,464 --> 00:17:03,704 Could this be redirecting me to change how I take care of my health and my life? 274 00:17:04,044 --> 00:17:09,994 Could this be redirecting myself to a new group of friends, someone who 275 00:17:09,994 --> 00:17:13,514 I'm truly meant to be with, or the people I'm meant to be surrounded by? 276 00:17:13,784 --> 00:17:16,834 Could this be redirecting me to finally say fuck it? 277 00:17:17,639 --> 00:17:23,879 And really go all in and stop toe dipping on my business Because there 278 00:17:23,879 --> 00:17:32,519 is always a medicine for us in the mess And why I say the mess that is going on 279 00:17:32,529 --> 00:17:40,039 the chaos that is going on Is actually part of the manifestation process. 280 00:17:40,329 --> 00:17:42,269 It's like, well, that sounds painful. 281 00:17:42,979 --> 00:17:48,229 I don't know where this, this, belief came from that manifesting is all cute and 282 00:17:48,229 --> 00:17:51,789 pretty and, and high vibey and beautiful. 283 00:17:52,209 --> 00:17:52,969 It is not. 284 00:17:53,499 --> 00:17:58,909 It's also messy and terrifying and uncomfortable and painful. 285 00:17:59,229 --> 00:18:04,079 That ego death that I had in my birthday, and I was in a gorgeous spot. 286 00:18:04,079 --> 00:18:06,649 I was in a villa in Turks and Caicos, okay? 287 00:18:06,899 --> 00:18:09,519 I was in, I called that place Abundance Island. 288 00:18:10,169 --> 00:18:13,049 It's not like I wasn't appreciative of being there. 289 00:18:13,299 --> 00:18:18,844 I was on my knees, Literally, talking to the universe, talking 290 00:18:18,844 --> 00:18:20,914 to God, talking to my angels. 291 00:18:21,014 --> 00:18:23,514 I, I knew I was being redirected. 292 00:18:23,514 --> 00:18:25,294 I was in so much pain. 293 00:18:25,944 --> 00:18:32,164 And the message I got was, you got caught up in an old behavior. 294 00:18:32,794 --> 00:18:35,614 You will never do this behavior again. 295 00:18:36,834 --> 00:18:40,434 And I was shocked. 296 00:18:40,714 --> 00:18:43,854 I was, at first I wanted to go, I'm confused. 297 00:18:43,874 --> 00:18:44,864 What behavior? 298 00:18:45,624 --> 00:18:46,874 What are you talking about? 299 00:18:47,204 --> 00:18:51,494 Because again, our egos are cunning, baffling and manipulative, right? 300 00:18:51,494 --> 00:18:55,704 My ego wanted, you're confused, you stay stuck, you're confused, you don't 301 00:18:55,704 --> 00:18:57,744 manifest, you're confused, you stay broke. 302 00:18:58,044 --> 00:19:00,514 Okay, confusion is dangerous. 303 00:19:00,524 --> 00:19:03,844 And I know a lot of you get in that state. 304 00:19:04,354 --> 00:19:08,124 And it is a very, very shady way. 305 00:19:09,039 --> 00:19:12,919 that our egos keep us from doing the things. 306 00:19:12,959 --> 00:19:14,949 It keeps us in a state of settling. 307 00:19:15,039 --> 00:19:19,049 You're dealing with a sociopath and or narcissist in your mind. 308 00:19:19,919 --> 00:19:24,179 If you've ever had a toxic relationship, these people keep you in something 309 00:19:24,179 --> 00:19:26,649 called the fog in order to control you. 310 00:19:26,949 --> 00:19:29,449 Fog stands for fear, obligation, and guilt. 311 00:19:29,879 --> 00:19:34,219 It keeps you in a foggy state so you can't see what's going on clearly. 312 00:19:34,439 --> 00:19:35,979 You start losing yourself. 313 00:19:35,979 --> 00:19:37,419 You lose touch of reality. 314 00:19:37,419 --> 00:19:43,154 You lose touch of like, The facts of this person, you get brain fog, you, 315 00:19:43,184 --> 00:19:48,204 you're not yourself, you lose your zest for life because that's when someone 316 00:19:48,204 --> 00:19:50,084 can best control, manipulate you. 317 00:19:50,234 --> 00:19:56,424 Your ego will do the same thing to you if you don't do anything to counteract it, 318 00:19:56,614 --> 00:20:02,254 which is why I have this podcast, which is why I have my programs, because you 319 00:20:02,254 --> 00:20:04,964 infuse yourself with all of this stuff. 320 00:20:05,459 --> 00:20:07,589 It helps you naturally counteract it. 321 00:20:07,589 --> 00:20:10,429 Same with like my abundance walks that I give you guys for free. 322 00:20:10,439 --> 00:20:12,469 That link is also in the show notes. 323 00:20:12,469 --> 00:20:20,439 Like you need to intentionally be taking actions to counteract 324 00:20:20,509 --> 00:20:22,269 what goes on in that mind. 325 00:20:22,279 --> 00:20:26,169 And if you are especially going through a messy time, you need 326 00:20:26,169 --> 00:20:28,479 to really up the ante with this. 327 00:20:28,479 --> 00:20:30,544 Like Everything depends on it. 328 00:20:31,504 --> 00:20:35,884 So I know, because I've obviously trained myself and I teach this, 329 00:20:36,064 --> 00:20:38,024 I know confusion is bullshit. 330 00:20:38,054 --> 00:20:39,354 It's an abuse tactic. 331 00:20:40,124 --> 00:20:43,994 And so I was like, okay, you're not, you're not confused. 332 00:20:44,654 --> 00:20:45,734 What is this? 333 00:20:46,284 --> 00:20:47,244 What is this? 334 00:20:47,484 --> 00:20:48,734 What is this message? 335 00:20:48,744 --> 00:20:50,164 What is this lesson? 336 00:20:50,334 --> 00:20:51,964 What did I get into? 337 00:20:51,964 --> 00:20:56,024 What is a behavior that I repeated that I didn't realize I was 338 00:20:56,024 --> 00:21:00,884 repeating that led me to this point where I'm having this experience? 339 00:21:00,914 --> 00:21:04,294 And I even knew at that point, this has to be, this is an ego death. 340 00:21:04,544 --> 00:21:06,394 Like when you have one, you know it. 341 00:21:07,664 --> 00:21:12,124 And I didn't know the answer right there, but I put it out there. 342 00:21:12,124 --> 00:21:13,684 So you don't have to know the answer. 343 00:21:13,684 --> 00:21:15,084 You don't have to know all the whys. 344 00:21:15,084 --> 00:21:18,984 Figuring it out, by the way, is another clever way that we can 345 00:21:18,984 --> 00:21:20,764 dissociate from how we're feeling. 346 00:21:20,944 --> 00:21:22,804 So you don't have to have it figured out. 347 00:21:23,454 --> 00:21:28,224 So I put it out there into the universe, like, please help make this more clear 348 00:21:28,244 --> 00:21:30,244 to me because I'm not seeing it clearly. 349 00:21:30,244 --> 00:21:33,494 So then I went and did positive distractions. 350 00:21:33,844 --> 00:21:37,434 And this is something that I want you to be doing to manifest your 351 00:21:37,435 --> 00:21:38,649 positive You know, in a mess. 352 00:21:39,299 --> 00:21:44,969 I want you to do dissociative tasks or activities that are healthy, so 353 00:21:44,969 --> 00:21:50,269 not like binge drinking, okay, but that are healthy, that take your 354 00:21:50,269 --> 00:21:52,489 mind out of the acute situation. 355 00:21:52,989 --> 00:21:57,019 Using the examples even right now of the Los Angeles fires. 356 00:21:57,689 --> 00:22:00,189 I did feel a little guilty going to Pilates class. 357 00:22:00,209 --> 00:22:03,469 Who the hell's going to Pilates class asking, acting as though everything is 358 00:22:03,469 --> 00:22:06,479 fine when people have lost their homes? 359 00:22:06,519 --> 00:22:09,079 Like, I should be volunteering 14 hours a day. 360 00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,159 Well, that's not sustainable. 361 00:22:11,429 --> 00:22:15,729 And I have to take care of myself in order to help myself and others, right? 362 00:22:16,199 --> 00:22:18,219 So I did it anyway, right? 363 00:22:18,329 --> 00:22:22,579 I slept 10 hours, several nights this week, my nervous 364 00:22:22,579 --> 00:22:24,249 system needed that to regulate. 365 00:22:24,579 --> 00:22:31,844 I am making sure that I do tasks like even record podcast episodes, going on 366 00:22:31,874 --> 00:22:36,644 TikTok live, having, helping a friend who is like shopping for all these 367 00:22:36,644 --> 00:22:38,424 different looks for a music festival. 368 00:22:38,764 --> 00:22:40,404 She knows what's going on here. 369 00:22:40,404 --> 00:22:41,774 She's not being insensitive. 370 00:22:41,774 --> 00:22:43,604 I asked her to help distract me. 371 00:22:43,764 --> 00:22:46,464 So I virtually went shopping with her, right? 372 00:22:46,465 --> 00:22:50,244 And like, we were laughing at stuff and like, that really helps. 373 00:22:50,254 --> 00:22:55,889 Some of you Getting into a creative project, coloring, redecorating a 374 00:22:55,889 --> 00:23:03,799 room, doing something that gets your mind just right out of that repetitive 375 00:23:03,829 --> 00:23:08,289 loop of negativity, of victimness, of helplessness, of hopelessness. 376 00:23:08,599 --> 00:23:10,879 Run errands, go to the damn grocery store. 377 00:23:10,919 --> 00:23:14,279 I don't care, but you need to do something different. 378 00:23:14,764 --> 00:23:16,404 Binge my podcast, right? 379 00:23:16,454 --> 00:23:20,724 Binge my content, like some stuff that's actually safe and good for you 380 00:23:20,724 --> 00:23:24,774 because what will happen when you're doing those things is there's going to 381 00:23:24,774 --> 00:23:30,894 be something you watch on TV, something you hear, something you see when 382 00:23:30,894 --> 00:23:35,234 you're out doing something, something will come to you in a yoga class. 383 00:23:36,054 --> 00:23:40,284 And you will end up getting what the message is of this mess. 384 00:23:40,644 --> 00:23:44,074 You will end up hearing it very clearly because you've 385 00:23:44,074 --> 00:23:46,154 intentionally asked the universe. 386 00:23:46,344 --> 00:23:47,564 You've put it out there. 387 00:23:47,774 --> 00:23:50,744 You have put in, in the energy field. 388 00:23:51,304 --> 00:23:54,254 You have put out in the algorithm. 389 00:23:54,914 --> 00:23:58,964 You know, almost like a beacon going boop, boop, boop, boop, boop, boop, boop, boop. 390 00:23:58,964 --> 00:24:01,804 We're searching for the thing and it brings it to you. 391 00:24:02,124 --> 00:24:06,434 But it's very hard to hear these messages when your nervous system is like 392 00:24:06,494 --> 00:24:08,284 literally in fight, flight, or freeze. 393 00:24:08,794 --> 00:24:11,954 And that's why I need you to have these moments. 394 00:24:11,964 --> 00:24:15,574 It's not, you might, you won't even have necessarily an hour of it, but 395 00:24:15,574 --> 00:24:19,714 you need to have moments of reprieve to be able to hear the divine. 396 00:24:19,824 --> 00:24:20,354 Okay. 397 00:24:21,294 --> 00:24:24,144 And you can get moments of reprieve and crisis. 398 00:24:24,194 --> 00:24:26,374 I've had enough crisis in my life. 399 00:24:26,404 --> 00:24:28,714 Just listen to my book that's on here. 400 00:24:28,724 --> 00:24:32,614 That I can speak to this and you'll be able to do that. 401 00:24:33,064 --> 00:24:42,344 So what came up for me is, Tiffany, you went in to an old familiar behavior 402 00:24:42,364 --> 00:24:48,154 that's rooted in ego, that is rooted in fear, that is rooted in self 403 00:24:48,174 --> 00:24:56,564 protection of if I want to maintain all of this abundance that I have had 404 00:24:56,564 --> 00:25:00,234 showered upon me in early in 2024. 405 00:25:01,019 --> 00:25:02,339 You're gonna have to work, bitch. 406 00:25:02,739 --> 00:25:09,359 And my ego got in there, subconsciously, slipped in there without me realizing it. 407 00:25:09,559 --> 00:25:12,509 And it's like, you want this level of abundance? 408 00:25:12,529 --> 00:25:13,779 You want to keep this up? 409 00:25:13,819 --> 00:25:16,129 You've gotten a surge of podcast listeners. 410 00:25:16,129 --> 00:25:17,269 A surge of money. 411 00:25:17,469 --> 00:25:19,084 I mean, I'm talking a big surge. 412 00:25:19,424 --> 00:25:27,434 Like, week after week, 100, 000 a 000 a week, I mean, insane, like for me insane, 413 00:25:27,454 --> 00:25:32,464 like, holy crap, and I've made a, like, a great amount of money for quite some 414 00:25:32,464 --> 00:25:37,884 time now, but this, I went to another level, I did a timeline jump, okay? 415 00:25:38,774 --> 00:25:43,414 And that nervous system, when you can have a surge of abundance, 416 00:25:43,444 --> 00:25:48,114 or you can have a surge of shit happen to you, both can spiral you. 417 00:25:48,444 --> 00:25:55,394 Okay, on both sides, extreme abundance, extreme shit will bring 418 00:25:55,394 --> 00:26:01,614 out like that old buried beliefs and stuff will come out and take charge. 419 00:26:01,854 --> 00:26:03,204 And what happened? 420 00:26:03,644 --> 00:26:08,124 I would say it was like the second half in particular of 2024. 421 00:26:08,754 --> 00:26:10,874 I went into you've got to work. 422 00:26:10,884 --> 00:26:11,764 You've got to do more. 423 00:26:11,774 --> 00:26:12,834 You want to keep this up. 424 00:26:12,864 --> 00:26:14,044 You want to keep this up, Tiffany. 425 00:26:14,044 --> 00:26:14,714 You got to do this. 426 00:26:14,714 --> 00:26:15,724 You want to serve more people. 427 00:26:15,724 --> 00:26:16,274 You have to do this. 428 00:26:16,275 --> 00:26:17,354 You've got all this abundance. 429 00:26:17,544 --> 00:26:18,384 You've got to give more. 430 00:26:18,385 --> 00:26:19,054 You've got to show more. 431 00:26:19,055 --> 00:26:26,824 I mean, it was non stop this churning in my mind. 432 00:26:26,904 --> 00:26:33,084 And so I overworked, plus my brain was exhausting me because 433 00:26:33,264 --> 00:26:35,204 that's not a fun space to be in. 434 00:26:35,214 --> 00:26:39,684 That's a fear space because basically what it's saying is when you're feeling 435 00:26:39,684 --> 00:26:45,494 like you're in a spot of despair, of stress, resentfulness, you don't 436 00:26:45,494 --> 00:26:50,364 feel light, you don't feel free, you don't feel expansive, you don't feel 437 00:26:50,394 --> 00:26:55,484 those abundant feelings, you're in scarcity, you're in a fear response. 438 00:26:55,869 --> 00:26:56,149 Right? 439 00:26:56,159 --> 00:26:57,659 You have something going on. 440 00:26:57,809 --> 00:27:00,959 So some of you who are listening to this are like, Oh, shit. 441 00:27:01,379 --> 00:27:02,809 I am in that right now. 442 00:27:03,279 --> 00:27:05,029 And this happens to all of us. 443 00:27:05,129 --> 00:27:05,509 Okay? 444 00:27:05,509 --> 00:27:08,369 You don't have to have a catastrophe happen for this to happen. 445 00:27:08,889 --> 00:27:12,249 You could have a mental health disorder and this happens. 446 00:27:12,389 --> 00:27:16,259 You could have a series of little annoying things that put you into this. 447 00:27:16,439 --> 00:27:16,909 Okay? 448 00:27:16,909 --> 00:27:22,759 Like there's no, don't, don't allow your brain to tell you You have all of this 449 00:27:22,759 --> 00:27:26,209 and you have this amazing family and this business and you make all this money. 450 00:27:26,329 --> 00:27:27,809 So you shouldn't be feeling this way. 451 00:27:27,949 --> 00:27:30,749 Now you're doing toxic gratitude on yourself. 452 00:27:31,089 --> 00:27:32,939 And that's doesn't feel good. 453 00:27:32,949 --> 00:27:35,409 That's not, that's not a plan here. 454 00:27:36,799 --> 00:27:48,059 And what I realized I did is I was so afraid to lose all the work and the 455 00:27:48,059 --> 00:27:54,409 success and the heart that I've put into building project me with Tiffany Carter. 456 00:27:55,199 --> 00:28:03,049 That my internal mechanism went to, like an abundance cap, like this feels so good. 457 00:28:03,049 --> 00:28:05,239 This almost feels too good to be true. 458 00:28:05,459 --> 00:28:09,599 I'm gallivanting through Europe for weeks and I'm still having these 459 00:28:09,599 --> 00:28:14,769 insane cash weeks, you know, and it's like, how can you really keep 460 00:28:14,769 --> 00:28:17,559 this up at like it hit that cap. 461 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:22,779 And so then it triggered all those behaviors, which then put me in this 462 00:28:22,779 --> 00:28:29,604 state of feeling Exhausted, depleted, not myself, and I didn't know how to get out 463 00:28:29,604 --> 00:28:31,584 of it, and it was affecting my health. 464 00:28:32,124 --> 00:28:41,209 And thankfully, I ended up in such a low spot that that is what woke me up. 465 00:28:41,339 --> 00:28:43,879 That amount of pain had to wake me up. 466 00:28:44,279 --> 00:28:50,519 And that is one small example of how when we're in the depths of despair and in 467 00:28:50,519 --> 00:28:57,549 our stuff, that is actually the missing link, the missing key, the missing 468 00:28:57,549 --> 00:29:03,589 puzzle piece, the last thing that's needed to ignite your manifestations. 469 00:29:04,709 --> 00:29:09,149 Because I saw it so clearly then, I went, I see what happened. 470 00:29:10,079 --> 00:29:14,639 Let me take a momentary break from this episode to ask you something. 471 00:29:14,949 --> 00:29:19,329 What if 60 days could completely revolutionize not just your 472 00:29:19,339 --> 00:29:23,449 business, but your entire relationship with success and money? 473 00:29:23,914 --> 00:29:28,264 It is a rare opportunity right now that I have any spots to 474 00:29:28,264 --> 00:29:29,824 work with me at this level. 475 00:29:30,034 --> 00:29:35,194 This is my exclusive two month private business coaching program, and this isn't 476 00:29:35,204 --> 00:29:37,274 just coaching where you get information. 477 00:29:37,564 --> 00:29:43,024 This is where I teach you income generating skills and have them 478 00:29:43,044 --> 00:29:44,814 completely customized to you. 479 00:29:44,954 --> 00:29:50,384 to apply to your business, to your industry and your ideal clients so 480 00:29:50,384 --> 00:29:56,344 that you can convert those customers of yours into cash on repeat. 481 00:29:56,604 --> 00:30:01,404 You're not just hoping and posting, you're not just guessing and 482 00:30:01,414 --> 00:30:03,554 doing your business on your own. 483 00:30:03,564 --> 00:30:07,864 And work, even manifesting that it's going to work. 484 00:30:08,034 --> 00:30:14,114 We take intentional actions so that we can make sure that it's going to work. 485 00:30:14,384 --> 00:30:20,084 So you are going to be able to master high ticket sales without turning people off. 486 00:30:20,164 --> 00:30:24,904 So selling in a way that feels good to you and others know exactly how to 487 00:30:24,904 --> 00:30:31,079 create profitable So you create little pieces of content all over the interwebs 488 00:30:31,089 --> 00:30:36,049 from emails to short form videos to long form videos that are selling for you 489 00:30:36,049 --> 00:30:37,859 in all time zones through the night. 490 00:30:37,859 --> 00:30:43,939 So you're waking up to passive income and how to craft your offers and messaging. 491 00:30:44,149 --> 00:30:49,449 So they compel people to want to buy from you, not convince, not manipulate. 492 00:30:49,510 --> 00:30:51,999 They are leaned in. 493 00:30:52,009 --> 00:30:53,159 They want your help. 494 00:30:53,189 --> 00:30:54,439 They want your guidance. 495 00:30:54,439 --> 00:30:57,229 They're eager and excited to buy from you. 496 00:30:57,539 --> 00:31:00,819 This is what we do in working with me at this level. 497 00:31:00,829 --> 00:31:02,589 It is by application only. 498 00:31:02,629 --> 00:31:06,409 I only take a max of four private clients at a time. 499 00:31:06,789 --> 00:31:09,694 And I will not be taking any private clients. 500 00:31:09,734 --> 00:31:13,704 Once I start launching my selling with soul group coaching program, which 501 00:31:13,704 --> 00:31:15,674 is around the first week of March. 502 00:31:15,874 --> 00:31:19,984 And so they will not be available for a long time. 503 00:31:19,994 --> 00:31:24,584 So you know that you want to stop messing around and you want to get 504 00:31:24,584 --> 00:31:30,344 to your goals faster and on a direct route with me, apply to work with me. 505 00:31:30,354 --> 00:31:31,234 You can swipe up. 506 00:31:31,254 --> 00:31:32,494 It's inside the show notes. 507 00:31:32,564 --> 00:31:36,224 Please do not apply unless you are truly at a point. 508 00:31:36,304 --> 00:31:36,934 Okay. 509 00:31:37,084 --> 00:31:40,474 Even if you're starting from zero, even if you're already making millions. 510 00:31:40,474 --> 00:31:40,684 Okay. 511 00:31:40,684 --> 00:31:44,914 I work with entrepreneurs no matter where they're at in their journey. 512 00:31:44,914 --> 00:31:49,624 We just customize the strategy to get you to the goal that you're 513 00:31:49,624 --> 00:31:51,634 wanting to get to monetarily. 514 00:31:51,634 --> 00:31:56,644 And we use the same application process, but don't apply unless you're 515 00:31:56,644 --> 00:31:58,534 like, no, I'm done messing around. 516 00:31:59,349 --> 00:32:01,339 I don't want to waste any more time. 517 00:32:01,339 --> 00:32:03,899 I've wasted enough time kicking the can down the road. 518 00:32:04,129 --> 00:32:08,199 I want to do this thing and then we can make absolutely certain that 519 00:32:08,199 --> 00:32:12,219 this is the best fit for you in order to get the result that you want. 520 00:32:12,389 --> 00:32:15,789 I just don't want anyone applying just to like out of curiosity. 521 00:32:16,064 --> 00:32:20,324 Please be respectful of my time and other people's instead of doing that. 522 00:32:20,344 --> 00:32:24,814 If you have some other question before you apply, you can message me on 523 00:32:24,824 --> 00:32:26,354 Instagram at project me with Tiffany. 524 00:32:26,384 --> 00:32:28,534 That's the best place to do this. 525 00:32:28,544 --> 00:32:29,514 So swipe up. 526 00:32:29,534 --> 00:32:34,914 The application is in the show notes and let's make 2025 the year 527 00:32:35,064 --> 00:32:36,794 that your abundance comes alive. 528 00:32:36,794 --> 00:32:42,064 I see that there is this buried belief that was so ingrained, I 529 00:32:42,064 --> 00:32:45,844 reached an abundance cap, which is something I have reached before 530 00:32:45,844 --> 00:32:48,364 in my life, that I teach you guys. 531 00:32:48,994 --> 00:32:53,904 And I was thinking like, I am over that now, that isn't going to happen. 532 00:32:54,704 --> 00:32:56,024 And so it humbled me. 533 00:32:56,334 --> 00:32:58,564 So I needed to be clearly humbled. 534 00:32:59,184 --> 00:33:06,224 And it forced me to to go, I need to look at how I'm operating and doing things and 535 00:33:06,234 --> 00:33:12,714 having things set up so that I catch this so I don't fall into this going forward. 536 00:33:13,214 --> 00:33:19,434 And then you think, Oh, after an ego death, all is fine now, all is great. 537 00:33:19,454 --> 00:33:21,234 The skies have parted. 538 00:33:21,744 --> 00:33:22,844 We're all good. 539 00:33:23,774 --> 00:33:24,694 That's not life. 540 00:33:24,694 --> 00:33:25,704 That's not reality. 541 00:33:25,704 --> 00:33:28,394 How many of you have heard like bad things happen in threes? 542 00:33:28,394 --> 00:33:28,744 Okay. 543 00:33:28,784 --> 00:33:33,264 And I'm not trying to manifest that, but you know why that I believe that happens? 544 00:33:34,054 --> 00:33:39,334 Because you need to be so broken down sometimes in life. 545 00:33:40,319 --> 00:33:44,499 to rebuild into the next version of yourself that you're meant to be. 546 00:33:45,599 --> 00:33:52,689 I have never seen anybody who transformed their lives in a huge way where it 547 00:33:52,689 --> 00:33:55,109 didn't come from the goddamn ashes. 548 00:33:55,719 --> 00:34:00,039 I don't know anybody, maybe you do, I don't know anyone who didn't 549 00:34:00,039 --> 00:34:05,019 lose their health, maybe have cancer, lose a parent of coached 550 00:34:05,049 --> 00:34:06,949 people who've lost their children. 551 00:34:07,874 --> 00:34:10,144 Who've not only lost their children, they lost their child, 552 00:34:10,144 --> 00:34:11,604 and then they lose their job. 553 00:34:12,004 --> 00:34:14,924 And then they end up getting diagnosed with something. 554 00:34:15,844 --> 00:34:16,524 Okay? 555 00:34:16,564 --> 00:34:21,074 Like, where it's like, I can't handle anymore, universe. 556 00:34:21,084 --> 00:34:22,554 Like, I surrender. 557 00:34:22,724 --> 00:34:24,164 I'm at your mercy. 558 00:34:24,164 --> 00:34:25,294 I am on my knees. 559 00:34:25,294 --> 00:34:26,524 I can't do anymore. 560 00:34:26,924 --> 00:34:29,359 And that is what happened after that ego death. 561 00:34:30,069 --> 00:34:35,309 I had, and I can't share all of it, I do, I am a little more open about some 562 00:34:35,309 --> 00:34:39,939 things inside my posse membership because that's a closed container, but like, out 563 00:34:39,959 --> 00:34:45,089 in the, so to speak, full, full public, I do have to be careful of how I share 564 00:34:45,089 --> 00:34:46,699 things because I don't want to get sued. 565 00:34:46,989 --> 00:34:50,919 I got railed and nailed, and not in a sexy way. 566 00:34:51,919 --> 00:34:57,979 It kept going, it kept going, I'm talking whack, whack, whack, whack. 567 00:34:58,779 --> 00:35:07,749 My physical health, major inner trauma, crap, so let's just say family crap, 568 00:35:07,759 --> 00:35:15,509 like deeply painful stuff, taxes whacked unexpectedly, I could keep going. 569 00:35:16,449 --> 00:35:19,629 And I was so beaten down. 570 00:35:19,679 --> 00:35:23,049 I was like, Oh my God, I can't take anymore. 571 00:35:23,059 --> 00:35:24,509 Like Please. 572 00:35:24,679 --> 00:35:27,589 And I can be stubborn in, in true surrender. 573 00:35:27,629 --> 00:35:32,529 And I am making this point and using my story to showcase the proof 574 00:35:32,529 --> 00:35:34,559 of this and to teach this to you. 575 00:35:35,349 --> 00:35:39,899 When you get to a point of true surrender, you also know what that feels like. 576 00:35:40,179 --> 00:35:42,049 Most of us do half surrenders. 577 00:35:42,509 --> 00:35:46,309 universe, you know, God, angels, like I'm humbled. 578 00:35:46,349 --> 00:35:47,209 Please help me. 579 00:35:47,229 --> 00:35:48,119 Please guide me. 580 00:35:48,119 --> 00:35:48,999 I need help. 581 00:35:49,559 --> 00:35:50,969 There is a big difference. 582 00:35:50,999 --> 00:35:52,779 And some of you know what I'm talking about. 583 00:35:52,779 --> 00:35:55,449 And some of you don't because you have resisted being in 584 00:35:55,449 --> 00:35:57,059 true surrender in your life. 585 00:35:57,569 --> 00:36:03,069 And what the universe will do is it'll knock you down to enough pain 586 00:36:03,219 --> 00:36:08,469 and enough humility To where you are, you have no choice but to have faith. 587 00:36:09,109 --> 00:36:11,459 You have no choice but to build that faith muscle. 588 00:36:11,579 --> 00:36:17,019 You have no choice but to turn your will over to a God of your understanding. 589 00:36:17,819 --> 00:36:24,429 And the times in my life where I've had extreme timeline jumps, where I have had 590 00:36:24,499 --> 00:36:30,239 incredible changes and transformation and manifestations and areas of my 591 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:34,109 life, it is when I've been on my knees. 592 00:36:35,434 --> 00:36:38,844 I mean in, and it's being hit every possible way. 593 00:36:38,894 --> 00:36:44,094 And then I took a fun little trip for my inner child because 594 00:36:44,094 --> 00:36:45,884 I needed it for Christmas. 595 00:36:46,164 --> 00:36:49,914 And then I made plans for a trip for New Year's because I was like this 596 00:36:49,944 --> 00:36:56,944 year was so painful and I want to make sure going into 2025 I'm, I'm in 597 00:36:56,944 --> 00:37:00,414 an abundant state and I'm having fun and I want to do whatever possible 598 00:37:00,414 --> 00:37:02,834 to set that up and blah, blah, blah. 599 00:37:03,479 --> 00:37:11,309 Nope, the universe goes, no, we're going to give you the most debilitating flu 600 00:37:11,759 --> 00:37:16,199 that has been going around in history that is literally killing people. 601 00:37:16,439 --> 00:37:21,239 We are going to give that to you out of the blue and you are going 602 00:37:21,239 --> 00:37:24,909 to be bedridden for the rest of the year going into the new year in 603 00:37:24,909 --> 00:37:26,479 which you have to cancel this trip. 604 00:37:27,579 --> 00:37:30,459 And I spent from. 605 00:37:30,834 --> 00:37:33,594 And a lot of people, by the way, got this flu. 606 00:37:33,624 --> 00:37:38,804 There is literally a trending hashtag on TikTok and it was called, was it 607 00:37:38,804 --> 00:37:41,944 called like, I'm spacing on the name now. 608 00:37:42,854 --> 00:37:46,674 Was it called, , I feel like it was called like Chris, not Christmas flu. 609 00:37:46,704 --> 00:37:47,584 I can't remember. 610 00:37:47,794 --> 00:37:48,274 But. 611 00:37:48,599 --> 00:37:50,209 There was a trending hashtag about it. 612 00:37:50,219 --> 00:37:56,299 Thank God for that app because I was, I felt so alone and 613 00:37:56,299 --> 00:37:58,409 I was so miserable and sick. 614 00:37:58,639 --> 00:38:01,179 I was like, am I the only one who's who has this? 615 00:38:01,199 --> 00:38:02,639 And thank God there was a hashtag. 616 00:38:02,879 --> 00:38:05,109 There was tons of people who got sick. 617 00:38:05,569 --> 00:38:10,449 At the end of 2024, where we were forced to stay still, where we had 618 00:38:10,459 --> 00:38:16,429 no choice but to have people help us, where we had to let things go in our 619 00:38:16,429 --> 00:38:20,459 business, we had to let things go in our personal life, we had to let things, 620 00:38:21,099 --> 00:38:24,899 things go that we were even looking forward to, we had a truly release. 621 00:38:25,159 --> 00:38:29,579 I have never I can't remember the last time ever I've been 622 00:38:29,579 --> 00:38:32,549 in bed that many days straight. 623 00:38:33,019 --> 00:38:37,819 I was definitely bedridden for eight days And I would say this 624 00:38:37,819 --> 00:38:40,119 flu lasted 12 to 14 days for me. 625 00:38:41,149 --> 00:38:47,439 So, I didn't enter the new year in a state of, Yes! 626 00:38:47,869 --> 00:38:48,289 2025! 627 00:38:49,519 --> 00:38:50,389 Yeah! 628 00:38:50,719 --> 00:38:54,959 Because that's how I thought I should enter the new year. 629 00:38:55,249 --> 00:38:57,489 Or even like after a birthday, right? 630 00:38:57,539 --> 00:39:02,219 Here my birthday, I didn't enter my new year of my birthday in 631 00:39:02,219 --> 00:39:04,749 some rah rah high vibe place. 632 00:39:04,799 --> 00:39:05,909 I didn't like that. 633 00:39:06,674 --> 00:39:11,894 And here I wasn't entering the new year in that, instead, I was entering it 634 00:39:11,904 --> 00:39:19,454 in, I was crawling, and I was grateful to be crawling, and I had everything 635 00:39:19,454 --> 00:39:26,714 stripped away, I was, I was slowly crawling into the new year, and that 636 00:39:26,724 --> 00:39:33,734 happened for me, because the lesson is, you're going slow and steady, baby. 637 00:39:34,379 --> 00:39:36,759 You don't need to chase abundance. 638 00:39:36,799 --> 00:39:38,509 You don't need to overwork. 639 00:39:38,869 --> 00:39:40,229 You are safe. 640 00:39:40,309 --> 00:39:41,399 You are secure. 641 00:39:41,399 --> 00:39:42,599 You're supported. 642 00:39:43,279 --> 00:39:47,079 Believing anything else puts you back in that other state, 643 00:39:47,299 --> 00:39:48,989 and we've stripped that away. 644 00:39:49,284 --> 00:39:51,554 You can never go back to that again. 645 00:39:51,754 --> 00:39:52,974 We have shed that. 646 00:39:53,044 --> 00:39:54,154 That is gone. 647 00:39:54,824 --> 00:40:01,754 You're walking forward in a state of humility, in a state of honoring and 648 00:40:01,754 --> 00:40:07,084 protecting yourself physically, mentally, and emotionally first, regardless of how 649 00:40:07,084 --> 00:40:13,034 much money is coming in, regardless of how much fame happens for you, regardless. 650 00:40:13,774 --> 00:40:19,929 And I can tell you, I feel it with every bone in my body, That the universe 651 00:40:19,929 --> 00:40:23,779 is also preparing me for a big surge. 652 00:40:24,019 --> 00:40:27,269 A lot of you who are sitting there wondering, Why haven't 653 00:40:27,269 --> 00:40:28,649 I, you know, gone viral? 654 00:40:28,649 --> 00:40:30,369 Why don't I have a bigger audience yet? 655 00:40:30,369 --> 00:40:31,859 Why isn't my business blown up? 656 00:40:32,019 --> 00:40:34,399 Why aren't more people buying my things? 657 00:40:34,399 --> 00:40:37,159 I see all these people having this, that, or the other. 658 00:40:38,029 --> 00:40:40,649 You know, why have I not found my life partner yet? 659 00:40:40,659 --> 00:40:43,979 Why is it taking so much work for me to feel and look good in my 660 00:40:43,979 --> 00:40:49,189 body or what, you know, why is this catastrophe happening to me again? 661 00:40:50,439 --> 00:40:54,689 It's natural to want to know the why, like I said earlier, figuring it 662 00:40:54,779 --> 00:40:56,649 out as a way to avoid your feelings. 663 00:40:56,659 --> 00:41:02,109 It's a way to intellectualize what is going on and not have to be in your body. 664 00:41:02,179 --> 00:41:04,409 I am very good at doing that. 665 00:41:04,479 --> 00:41:05,079 Okay. 666 00:41:05,080 --> 00:41:05,239 Okay. 667 00:41:05,829 --> 00:41:08,649 And the reality is, is that. 668 00:41:09,054 --> 00:41:12,794 You are being given resilience. 669 00:41:12,954 --> 00:41:18,184 You are strengthening certain muscles that you needed to have strengthened 670 00:41:18,404 --> 00:41:24,374 to prepare you for your timeline jump, for this manifestation, for this 671 00:41:24,374 --> 00:41:26,314 abundance surge that you are getting. 672 00:41:26,804 --> 00:41:28,104 You're going through this shit. 673 00:41:28,174 --> 00:41:28,744 It's here. 674 00:41:29,234 --> 00:41:36,574 You're getting it and The universe knows God knows what you need in order to be 675 00:41:36,594 --> 00:41:42,124 able to handle this abundance to handle The person coming in your life to handle 676 00:41:42,394 --> 00:41:47,134 the growth of your business to handle the money to handle the things It knows 677 00:41:47,134 --> 00:41:52,754 what you need way more than you do and you wouldn't be able to survive it. 678 00:41:52,764 --> 00:41:54,434 You wouldn't be able to sustain it. 679 00:41:54,444 --> 00:42:00,314 You would end up sabotaging it if you didn't end up strengthening 680 00:42:00,384 --> 00:42:04,714 these resilience muscles that these messy times give us. 681 00:42:05,204 --> 00:42:08,654 And it also forces us to strip away. 682 00:42:08,974 --> 00:42:15,784 Beliefs, people, places, things that we didn't even realize how much were 683 00:42:15,784 --> 00:42:19,804 weighing us down or impacting us because it's happening subconsciously 684 00:42:19,984 --> 00:42:24,094 or we're in denial or we didn't want to see it because sometimes we don't 685 00:42:24,094 --> 00:42:27,634 want to see it because we have a fear of being alone or a fear of judgment. 686 00:42:28,354 --> 00:42:35,574 And it is putting you and positioning you to be in a direct line for the 687 00:42:35,574 --> 00:42:38,474 abundance that you are wanting to attract. 688 00:42:39,269 --> 00:42:43,369 So, when you are, whether it's now, whether it's three months 689 00:42:43,369 --> 00:42:46,839 from now, whether it's tomorrow, because it's inevitable, you will 690 00:42:46,839 --> 00:42:48,939 have messy shit happen to you. 691 00:42:49,649 --> 00:42:53,459 And I need you, if you don't take anything else away from this episode, 692 00:42:53,479 --> 00:43:01,649 to believe that the mess, okay, that you are experiencing is getting 693 00:43:01,649 --> 00:43:03,699 you closer to your manifestations. 694 00:43:04,019 --> 00:43:08,619 This chaos is taking you to creation, right? 695 00:43:08,619 --> 00:43:14,379 Like this is Part of it, not just when you're feeling great, not just 696 00:43:14,379 --> 00:43:18,989 when people are watching your videos, buying your stuff, leaving you great 697 00:43:18,989 --> 00:43:26,789 reviews, all, all the relationships in your life are vibing and you have great 698 00:43:26,819 --> 00:43:31,389 energy that's manifesting too, okay? 699 00:43:31,959 --> 00:43:40,029 But the real manifestors, the real way to sharpen those manifestation 700 00:43:40,029 --> 00:43:41,429 tools and those muscles. 701 00:43:42,199 --> 00:43:45,399 is what happens when you're going through the shit. 702 00:43:46,469 --> 00:43:51,119 I really hope this episode served as a great reminder and 703 00:43:51,119 --> 00:43:53,039 a support to you right now. 704 00:43:53,579 --> 00:43:57,969 Please, if you can take 30 seconds to leave a written 705 00:43:58,029 --> 00:44:00,219 podcast review on Apple Podcasts. 706 00:44:00,749 --> 00:44:05,419 100 will be donated to help the displaced animals and the injured 707 00:44:05,439 --> 00:44:08,359 animals from the Los Angeles wildfires. 708 00:44:08,669 --> 00:44:12,799 If you are a Spotify listener or YouTube listener, tap the five stars on Spotify. 709 00:44:12,809 --> 00:44:13,599 That really helps. 710 00:44:13,599 --> 00:44:16,669 Take a screenshot, share it in your Instagram, Facebook story, share it on 711 00:44:16,689 --> 00:44:19,139 TikTok, tag me at project me with Tiffany. 712 00:44:19,309 --> 00:44:21,129 Same with my YouTube watchers. 713 00:44:21,179 --> 00:44:24,209 And I will count those as a review. 714 00:44:24,479 --> 00:44:28,119 Please share this episode to anyone you know is going through it. 715 00:44:28,734 --> 00:44:34,344 I feel I did a really good job of making sure there was nothing that even 716 00:44:34,544 --> 00:44:39,294 somewhat smelled of toxic positivity because there is nothing more annoying 717 00:44:39,634 --> 00:44:44,004 than when you're going through something deeply painful than hearing that like, 718 00:44:44,474 --> 00:44:47,424 Pollyanna positive motivational talk. 719 00:44:48,014 --> 00:44:50,204 It's actually causes a lot of shame. 720 00:44:50,454 --> 00:44:54,194 And I really hope that I did a great job. 721 00:44:54,514 --> 00:45:00,114 job of serving you here and that you will pass this along to anyone who you 722 00:45:00,124 --> 00:45:01,834 feel that this will help them right now. 723 00:45:02,254 --> 00:45:05,084 Wishing you great health, wealth, and worth as always. 724 00:45:05,364 --> 00:45:05,824 Love you.