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Seven figure success starts when
you start thinking like a CEO.

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Welcome to the John
Kitchens Coach podcast.

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Experience is your host, John Kitchens.

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Get ready to think bigger and
transform your business into

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a path to lasting freedom.

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What up?

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What up brother?

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How are you?

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Hey, I'm good man.

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How are you?

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Good, good.

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Welcome everybody.

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Thank you guys for tuning in.

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Um.

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We built agent to CEO going into 2019.

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Um, really off of everything that
we had been doing since 2004.

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Kinder been doing since.

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2000, right?

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And so it was, um, just a lot of
lessons learned, things that we

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had experienced, things that we had
coached and helped people experience.

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And it was really all
about just evolution.

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And that's really where the agent
to CEO concept really came from, was

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just about evolving from an agent
to really becoming the CEO, um, the

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transformation that happens not only in
your business but in your life, right?

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Because.

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It's not necessarily al always
about achieving the goal, but it

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is about who you become on the
way to achieve that goal, right?

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Who do you have to become?

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What habits do you have to let go of?

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What habits do you have to create in
order for you to get to, to that point?

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So it, it's, it's just really a more
so mindset first with, with everything.

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It's always mindset first.

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So the agency, CEO mindset, and.

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I wanna get into really what the power
hour, uh, that, that I wanna talk about.

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I wanna hit on some, some topics, how it
aligns to the agent CEO concept and model.

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Oh, but there were a couple things that
were popping usually on, uh, one big fire.

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We dive into kind of trending
topics, things that are happening.

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But I would love to get your
take on a couple things, Joel.

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As we're seeing, um, a lot of shifts
and a lot of, a lot of changes, I

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wanted to, um, kick off by what I
just saw, um, from real estate news.

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Just put out really with, you know,
Gary, Gary being Gary, and there was

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something that he had alluded to.

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Here in the, um, talking about a couple
things to focus on and would love to.

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Get your, take a hot take on this
real quick, and then any, any

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perspective that you guys have.

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Can you, Joel, can you see
the housing wire article?

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Yep.

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So, Gary's alluding to lead generation
will lead to success in, in a

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slow market, uh, as always, right?

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Always, always be focusing on the
lead generation side of things.

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And there was another statistic
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That I saw from, um, Chris Smith.

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I don't know if you saw
this crazy article, did you?

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Uh, we, we will come back to this,
this, this, uh, somebody got a, a pig

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pig's head on their, on their doorstep.

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Um, I don't know if this is where it's at.

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It'll tie to it.

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There was some statistics that I
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No, we'll, we'll come back to that.

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So, but Oh, I know where it was.

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I'll pull that up here in a second.

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Um, but looking at what, what Gary's
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kind of being faced that he was alluding
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Because this is, uh, this
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Hot take.

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So, um, obviously Gary B. Gary B and Gary
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right now on the bones of individuals
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And he said the ones that focus
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are the ones that are gonna thrive.

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And that's the set hours, man, that's
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Is it the Alzheimer's?

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What, what is it gonna really take
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To be able to get ahead?

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Not, not, not just survive, but
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What does that look like right now?

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What would you say?

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Right, because just like Gary's saying
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Why not us?

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Why not us out there getting it?

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And that's that honey badger mentality.

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That's the agent to CEO mindset.

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It's like, I'm gonna go get my fair share,

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but what's the commitment?

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You can't be interested.

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I'm not asking you to be obsessed, but
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right now to create some separation
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We, we've talked before, um,
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committed, and obsessed, right?

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And, and for the last 10 years, or most
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Real estate success was enough
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real estate success, right?

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You were doing enough deals
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the market, you know, down too.

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Being interested in, in real
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gonna be good enough anymore.

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It's about being committed.

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I think the obsessed, that's the
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there's always gonna be those people.

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gonna keep grabbing market share.

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Um, but the, the agents who are committed
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Uh, Hormoz talks about this.

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A lot of other guys are, are
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bar, the bar's pretty low.

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For, uh, for what your
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Uh, you, you know, uh,
broadly in real estate.

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And so I kind of like the, I kind of like
the idea of like committed, looks like the

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job showing up every single day, uh, which
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which is what we're talking about with
agent to CEO show showing up every day.

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Growing your business.

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When you can fire yourself from
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do that, but you don't stop.

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You just move into higher, higher
leveraged activities, and then when

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you can offload something else to a va,
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You move on and, and spend
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If you're not spending any less time,
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less time is years or decades down
the road for most of the people who

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are, who are gonna be on this call
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And so, you know, you have to
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And in order to do that, I think
committed is the exact right word.

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So, you know, are you, are you
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Have you mastered your calendar?

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Are you prospecting in the morning and
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Are you putting time in your
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Which I, I think that's something
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past year especially, which I love.

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Thinking about the business, thinking
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the strategy, are you putting some
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learning what's possible, learning
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and integrating it into your business?

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great way to start with that is.

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What, what are you doing for the,
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supposed to be working today?

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more, uh, I, I want your take on this

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agent to CEO if you were building
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putting yourself out of a job.

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Meaning like what you just said
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You do everything right.

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You have the ideas, you manage
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I mean, you do everything.

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You turn the lights on, you make
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out, you, you know, nothing is, is
too big and nothing is too small.

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Now you have that thought partner,
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bounce ideas off, make quicker decisions.

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You get somebody to help support you on
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um, paper at closing type of thing, right?

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There's a couple different facets
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You can, you know, then start building
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A, a, you know, a a, a global.

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Support team to help you, then
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maybe you make a, a, a, a critical
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marketing and social side of things.

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'cause I want to get into, um, a couple
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V and the sauna this morning about.

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That's, here's a funny story.

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I'll, I'll tell you that in a second.

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But you start to, to, to expand
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you're not doing TC work.

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You're not doing marketing work other
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the maybe some of the, you, you gotta
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of things, but you're not doing the,
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You're getting the bookkeeping stuff off
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the operational stuff off your plate.

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So you keep working yourself out
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out of production and then you
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you're just head of company.

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And then you know, the holy grail is
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business, you're working on the business,
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You're just a true owner of the business.

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Um, they, they typically build real
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I just don't know how sustainable
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is moving into the next few years.

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And if you read that article from Gary,
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ain't getting better till next summer.

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So if that's true, that means we got
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Seatbelt on, buckle up, right?

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So like, because I, it could get worse.

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It could get worse.

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It really, really could get worse
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So it's just some things to think
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crisis is to prepare for a crisis.

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And that's the only way to deal with
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Uh, I mean, what are, what are, what
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That in regards to that type of
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Yeah, I don't, I don't think, well,
we'll get to, we'll get to lifestyle

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kind of two, two parts there.

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Um, talking about lifestyle,
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the next 12 months look like?

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Um, you know, a really important piece
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It's kind of an undercurrent.

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We don't really address it full.

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There's not a session on.

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Putting yourself in a good position,
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does, is put you in a good position.

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We're looking at our finances.

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We're putting core capital aside.

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Uh, we're running lean, um, you know,
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with VAs, um, to keep payroll costs down.

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We, we've got maybe additional funds
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Uh, maybe we're doubling down on our
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There's all these things that, that.

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Bubble up to the surface and strategy
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Um, Shane Parrish talks a lot
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He uses Warren Warren Buffet as the
example, and, and the, the, what

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being in a good position means is
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that you don't want to make.

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The market can't force you into it.

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The competition can't force you into it.

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Being in a good position means
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So people always rip on Warren
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holding too much cash, right?

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He'll never get caught where
he's gotta make a decision.

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He doesn't want to sell a big
position that he doesn't want to

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have to sell because of the market.

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He's always in a good position.

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And so what are the things you can do
to put yourself in a good position?

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And a lot of the agent to CEO process.

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Puts you in a position to win where
again, the market's not forcing you to

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make decisions you don't wanna make.

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And, and the competition's not
forcing you to make decisions.

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You wanna make.

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What's part of the market right now?

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Well, AI is part of the market right
now, so what's gonna happen there?

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But again, being in a good position,
being in a strong financial position,

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being in a strong, uh, marketing
position, being a strong people

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position, all of these things.

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Put you in a position, uh, of, of
security, but also a flexibility

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that when the time's right, you're
ready to pounce on the opportunities.

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Mm-hmm.

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Whereas if we overextend ourselves
when we're riding the market up and we

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don't, we don't play a little bit safe.

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We end up being way out of position
when the market starts to turn.

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And if you're out of position when the
market starts to go down, you're gonna be

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out of position when it starts to go up
again and not able to capitalize on it.

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So, uh, the, the agent to CEO process
really puts you in, in, in a winning

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position and a position of, of strength
and, and control over your business.

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Um, so that's the one thing In
terms of, uh, what was, what

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was the second part again,

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more about, you know,
a lot of agents have.

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Built their business
around lifestyle, right?

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They'll generate 300,000 and they'll spend
304,000 and not like running and, and

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falling in love with the p and l, right?

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P and l, right?

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They're, they're running an L, they
ain't running no p. So it's, it's

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really making sure that they start
to really take into consideration

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and, you know, one of the three.

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Critical things for us that flip the
switch for, for everything to, to to know.

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The ability to escape production takes
three things and the three things for us.

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And one is, is knowing the numbers right?

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And having a clear understanding
of the key metrics and the numbers

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you need to pay attention to.

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So that's where I struggle a little bit.

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Are are a little concerned.

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Be, I mean, and I mean, shit.

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We've all been guilty at times.

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Right.

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Especially entrepreneurs.

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Sometimes we, we, we fall in love
with and think that the growth of the

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momentum is gonna keep happening and
we forget, you know, the concept that

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the only, only the paranoid survive.

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And so we, we have to
be able to step back.

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And so any, any thoughts around or,
or pump the brakes or a little caution

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with, you know, the lifestyle folks?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I think, I think I.

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Thinking through the idea of, of
positioning would be really valuable

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for people in a lifestyle business.

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Um, and again, you're kind of,
we're defining lifestyle business

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as, um, you're, you're essentially.

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Spending whatever revenue the business
creates, either in the business or

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more, more likely, your lifestyle.

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So you sell more deals, make more money,
your lifestyle increases a little bit.

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You're not building, uh,
an asset in the business.

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Um, so I think positioning is a
really important thing for people.

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Uh, with a lifestyle business
because maybe it is time to,

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uh, to pull back a little bit.

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So we're saving more for a down
market where we're investing more

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either in the business or in assets.

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I think there's a, there's a a great

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opportunity for lifestyle businesses.

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You just can't have both.

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And so a lifestyle business, if you want
it to, to fund your lifestyle and then

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fund your retirement, well then a big
part of that lifestyle business has to be.

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You know, generating income to
acquire other assets that are

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gonna help you, whether that's
your stock portfolio, retirement

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savings, real estate, whatever it is.

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Where I think a lot of people are gonna
get caught is they think they're building

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a business that's gonna be valuable, but
they're actually building a, a lifestyle

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business and they're, they're, they
don't know the difference between the

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two and there's no intention behind it.

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Lifestyle business is great if
that's what you set out to do and

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you've thought through it, and you
know what it's gonna take for that

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lifestyle business to generate enough
income to then acquire other assets

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or over the long term, um, great.

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But that's a, that's a real option.

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Uh, but if you think you're building
a valuable asset, but you're

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actually building a a on paper, not
very valuable lifestyle business,

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then I think those are the people
who are gonna be in trouble here.

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Yeah, I mean, I, I mean, I think
the only reason to have real estate

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or build a real estate team is to
just unlock other opportunities.

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That's, that's the only thing that
I believe, just because, you know.

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Built up, you know, multiple seven
figure figure real estate companies.

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We actually sold one and, and y'all,
y'all would laugh if, if, if you knew

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what we sold it for, um, after all of the
intellectual property, everything that was

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there, like, it just, there's no value.

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There's really no value,
especially when you take and

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you build the brand, which is.

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Typically your name because it's
so fast to get traction and build

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trust instead of trying to build
a, a, a brand that nobody knows.

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Right.

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I mean, Joel, you experienced that when
you guys went, you know, and rebrand,

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um, when, you know, you were, you were
partners there in Milwaukee, and, and

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so I just, I, you know, I stepped back
and I've seen it too many times and.

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The The real lesson.

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The real lesson, and it's, you've heard
me talk about this because this past

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October was 20 years with kinder and,
um, I, I reflected back as a coach.

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How would I coach these 2 27,
20 8-year-old knucklehead.

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That's, that's kind of the thought process
that I went through, that if I had the

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opportunity to coach us in oh four or
oh five, how would I have coached us?

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And we were so blinders on, on status
and yeah, we were running and gunning,

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but we were spending more than we
were making back into the business.

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We were tucking taking what we could.

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And we wanted to have some nice things,
but we weren't like being strategic in

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understanding what we're trying to do.

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We were just trying to fuel more growth.

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Yeah.

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Because we wanted to be number one.

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Instead of, and this is how I
would've coached us, I would've

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said, boys, what's freedom?

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'cause that's what you want to chase.

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You want to chase freedom, you want
to tra, you don't wanna chase status.

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Lifestyle business is status.

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What do you want to, what
you want to chase is freedom.

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You want to have the freedom to
do whatever the hell you want

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to do, whenever you want to do
it with, when, with whomever.

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You wanna do it whenever,
wherever, just go.

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And it's about having enough money
coming in to where you're not

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trading time for dollars because
most of us are dancing bears.

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If we don't dance, we don't get paid.

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And we need revenue streams and we need,
we need investments, we need money coming

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in to where if we wanted to go off the
grid for 60 days, nothing would slow down.

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Nothing would stop.

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And.

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If we would've had somebody
punching us in the mouth on

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understanding, it's about freedom.

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It's not about status.

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Now, would we be on this call?

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Probably not.

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Right?

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Like everything happens for a reason.

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There's, there's, there's a master plan.

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I, I'm, I'm all bought into that.

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But if I was to coach us in
that situation, that's how

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I would've coached us and.

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The other, Hey, quick
pause before we keep going.

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This market is shifting fast, and if
you've been feeling the pressure, you're

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not alone, but here's the thing, it's not
going to slow down so you can catch up.

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I've opened a limited number of executive
one-on-one coaching spots this month for

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agents who are ready to stop spinning
their wheels and lead with clarity.

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If that's you, head to John Kitchens
coach and let's make it happen.

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Now, back to the episode.

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Another element of of freedom is my
definition of freedom is two things.

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You have enough money coming in that
you're not trading time for dollars

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and you're living your perfect day.

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And the perfect day
scenario is ultimately.

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You know, really who you are at your
core, and it's an incredible exercise.

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We're, we're playing around with Perfect
Day 2.0 because of, of AI to where you

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can take a part of the vivid vision.

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Joel, take a part of the vivid vision
and the core identity exercise to really.

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Put together through AI and have an
AI ask you the questions one at a time

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to where you lay out your perfect day.

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Um, if you guys haven't read,
buy Back Your Time by Dan Martel.

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It's a, it's a, it's a almost a
requirement because when you understand

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the who not How concept from Dan
Sullivan, then you get into the, the

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buyback of your time from Dan Martel,
and there's a segment in there in the

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beginning to where he talks about Oprah.

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And he lays out Oprah's Oprah's Day
and Oprah's living her perfect day.

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I mean, she literally
lives the perfect day.

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She works out twice a day.

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She sips rose in the
garden at noon with lunch.

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She goes on walks with her
dog dogs and her husband.

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But she works.

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She works.

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And if everybody's honest, if you,
if you had to live Groundhog Day.

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But you get to design Groundhog Day,
you would work two to four hours.

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Everybody that's honest in that
exercise, they all work two to

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four hours, but Oprah works.

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I think it's an hour, maybe two
hours, but she only solves a

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hundred thousand dollars problems.

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Think about that.

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That's it.

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That's all she talks about.

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That's all she does.

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She solves a hundred thousand
dollars problems minimum.

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That's her.

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That's her floor.

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And when you have to think
about that, you're like, listen,

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like I know I'm gonna work.

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So what problems do you wanna solve?

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Who do you wanna work with?

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The beauty of that, that's why
it's called core identity, is

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because you catch yourself.

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You're like, man, I would never work
with this person on my perfect day.

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Then why the hell are you
working with them today?

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Man, I would never, I would
never eat this on my perfect day.

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Then why are you eating it?

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I would never hang out with
this person on my perfect day.

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I would never talk about
this on my perfect day.

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Then why are you, that's where the
core identity, and that's where

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the changes start to happen, right?

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That's who you have to become in order
to live the life that you want to live.

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So I, I'm, I'm super excited about, uh,
uh, about coming together in Cleveland.

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You know, obviously we can talk
about this all, all night long.

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Joel, any other thoughts around
kind of that concept of, of the

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business structure, business
dynamics, and moving towards freedom?

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Yeah, I think the, what, what's so
powerful about the perfect day exercise

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is you can put, you can put dollar
amounts to your perfect day, right?

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Well, what, what kind of
house are you living in?

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Well, we can put a dollar
amount behind that.

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What kind of car are you driving?

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Um, who are you spending time with?

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Where are, where are you,
you know, hanging out?

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Um, what are you working on
and how much, and what kind

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of income does that bring in?

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And how much time?

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You know, when you're not working, do you
need to have income coming in for those?

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And so, so we can, we can put dollar
amounts behind your perfect day.

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And now you've got the,
now you've got the target.

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Now we can say, I need this much
money, which means I'm gonna

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need this many assets producing
this much income to get there.

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All right, now we got a, now we
have a number and you talk about

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this a lot, the freedom number.

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And now we can design our business
to get us to the freedom number.

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So that lifestyle business,
now we could say, Hey, I got a

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lifestyle business right now.

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But if I either cut back on the
spending or increase revenue without

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increasing spending, now I can make
real progress towards my, towards

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that freedom number, which is, you
know, gonna get me to the perfect day.

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Or if we're earlier on, we're still
a solo agent, we've got a small team,

460
00:24:50,355 --> 00:24:52,185
we can say what, what needs to happen?

461
00:24:52,335 --> 00:24:55,125
How many transactions are we gonna
need to do at what profit margin?

462
00:24:55,155 --> 00:24:56,925
How many agents are we
gonna need to do that?

463
00:24:56,925 --> 00:24:57,765
Many transactions?

464
00:24:57,765 --> 00:24:59,835
You can start to design your business.

465
00:25:00,930 --> 00:25:04,770
Intentionally in a way that's
gonna get you to that end goal.

466
00:25:04,890 --> 00:25:07,920
But you have to get
crystal clear on that goal.

467
00:25:08,040 --> 00:25:12,870
So the perfect day is the right place
to start because we can reverse engineer

468
00:25:12,870 --> 00:25:16,050
the perfect day into the freedom
number and then we can build a business

469
00:25:16,050 --> 00:25:17,520
around getting to the freedom number.

470
00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:18,960
So I just, I love the, ah, I love it.

471
00:25:18,960 --> 00:25:23,910
I love the continuity of it and I
love the intentionality and, um.

472
00:25:24,555 --> 00:25:28,365
And, and for a lot of people the,
that, when you really do that math, the

473
00:25:28,365 --> 00:25:31,905
freedom number is a lot smaller than,
than we think at first, you know, every

474
00:25:31,905 --> 00:25:36,375
time my freedom number doesn't involve
having five VA vacation houses, right?

475
00:25:36,375 --> 00:25:38,745
It's got my house and it's
got a, the place up north on

476
00:25:38,745 --> 00:25:39,885
the lake, like that's mine.

477
00:25:39,885 --> 00:25:39,975
Mm-hmm.

478
00:25:40,215 --> 00:25:40,305
Right?

479
00:25:40,575 --> 00:25:43,875
So it, we, you could
get there a lot faster.

480
00:25:44,175 --> 00:25:47,985
And now if you said, Hey, maybe you don't
have to do 30 years of your lifestyle

481
00:25:47,985 --> 00:25:51,885
business, put in away 10% of your
income every year to finally get there.

482
00:25:51,975 --> 00:25:53,020
Maybe you could do it in five years.

483
00:25:53,850 --> 00:25:57,390
What would it look like to do it in five
years where you put 80% of your income

484
00:25:57,390 --> 00:25:59,340
away or, you know, whatever that is.

485
00:25:59,340 --> 00:26:01,260
But you can start to make those decisions.

486
00:26:01,590 --> 00:26:04,920
And then you always say, which I
love, you know, commit, commit,

487
00:26:05,310 --> 00:26:07,770
uh, or you don't believe in, you
know, commit and then figure it out.

488
00:26:07,770 --> 00:26:10,590
It's, it's figure out what it's
gonna take and then decide are

489
00:26:10,590 --> 00:26:11,850
you willing to pay that price?

490
00:26:12,060 --> 00:26:14,910
So maybe you could do it in five years,
but you're not willing to pay that price.

491
00:26:14,910 --> 00:26:15,270
Great.

492
00:26:15,300 --> 00:26:16,170
Do it in 10 years.

493
00:26:16,830 --> 00:26:16,950
Mm-hmm.

494
00:26:16,975 --> 00:26:19,710
Um, but the point is you can
have intentionality behind it

495
00:26:19,770 --> 00:26:21,690
once you do those exercises.

496
00:26:22,455 --> 00:26:23,564
No, dude, I love that.

497
00:26:23,564 --> 00:26:27,105
And, um, yeah, it's never what's the goal?

498
00:26:27,105 --> 00:26:29,745
It's how much pain are
you willing to withstand?

499
00:26:30,135 --> 00:26:32,895
Uh, it's, it's, you gotta, you
gotta look at it from that side

500
00:26:32,895 --> 00:26:35,324
of the fence to truly know.

501
00:26:35,834 --> 00:26:40,395
And, you know, I, I, I really,
truly learned that lesson.

502
00:26:40,665 --> 00:26:41,205
Um.

503
00:26:42,105 --> 00:26:43,185
Not very long ago.

504
00:26:43,274 --> 00:26:46,695
Um, about about seven,
maybe seven years ago.

505
00:26:46,695 --> 00:26:50,625
I learned that lesson seven,
eight years ago of the re I

506
00:26:50,625 --> 00:26:52,004
knew reverse engineer, but.

507
00:26:53,100 --> 00:26:59,070
I truly understood it with, with
Ironman and, you know, sitting at,

508
00:26:59,129 --> 00:27:00,900
sitting in the, in the audience.

509
00:27:01,020 --> 00:27:03,450
Um, this is why events
are so important, right?

510
00:27:03,450 --> 00:27:09,180
Sitting in the audience in LA it was
the last, uh, content and commerce

511
00:27:09,210 --> 00:27:11,070
that, uh, digital marketer did.

512
00:27:11,070 --> 00:27:12,030
It was their last one.

513
00:27:12,030 --> 00:27:13,590
It was the, their best event.

514
00:27:13,590 --> 00:27:15,210
It was better than trafficking conversion.

515
00:27:15,210 --> 00:27:17,790
It was just content and commerce,
and they had, Jesse Itzler was the

516
00:27:17,790 --> 00:27:20,220
keynote and I, I tell everybody.

517
00:27:20,645 --> 00:27:24,754
Like Jesse is the best from
stage, and if anybody ever gets

518
00:27:24,754 --> 00:27:25,895
a chance, they've gotta go.

519
00:27:25,925 --> 00:27:29,075
They've got, you know, go
see Jesse speak from stage.

520
00:27:30,004 --> 00:27:33,815
And he said something to me, right,
like 4,000 people in the audience,

521
00:27:33,815 --> 00:27:40,385
he's talking to me and he says, the
worst thing for us as humans is to

522
00:27:40,385 --> 00:27:44,254
accomplish a major milestone in our
life and not immediately reset the goal.

523
00:27:45,665 --> 00:27:48,125
And I was like, damn, I
just ran my first marathon.

524
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:49,710
This was a big deal.

525
00:27:49,770 --> 00:27:52,950
Like running a marathon was a
big deal for me because before

526
00:27:52,950 --> 00:27:56,730
that I had only run 5K fun runs.

527
00:27:56,760 --> 00:27:58,830
You know, beer, beer runs, that was it.

528
00:27:58,890 --> 00:28:01,020
You know, the mud runs, the beer runs.

529
00:28:01,020 --> 00:28:01,470
That was it.

530
00:28:01,500 --> 00:28:02,610
We did it for team building.

531
00:28:02,610 --> 00:28:03,420
We just had fun.

532
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:05,100
Um, we got hammered.

533
00:28:05,100 --> 00:28:06,630
We just, we just, we just had a good time.

534
00:28:07,170 --> 00:28:07,830
And

535
00:28:10,170 --> 00:28:12,300
I knew he was talking to me, right?

536
00:28:12,390 --> 00:28:13,830
Like, we've all had that moment, right?

537
00:28:13,830 --> 00:28:15,780
We're in the, we're in the crowd
and they're like, man, that

538
00:28:15,780 --> 00:28:17,190
dude's speaking directly to me.

539
00:28:17,594 --> 00:28:22,334
And you know, right after that I
got a notification for the 10 year

540
00:28:22,425 --> 00:28:23,985
anniversary of Ironman, Florida.

541
00:28:24,764 --> 00:28:27,735
And um, I was like, man, what
the hell is Ironman like?

542
00:28:27,735 --> 00:28:28,334
I didn't even know.

543
00:28:28,334 --> 00:28:31,754
I seen it on tv, but I didn't
really, truly know what it was.

544
00:28:32,205 --> 00:28:37,425
And I would have AI help me with this
now, but I had to reverse engineer, right?

545
00:28:38,564 --> 00:28:46,034
2.4 miles, 2.2 0.6 miles in the
water, 112 miles on the bike.

546
00:28:47,159 --> 00:28:48,060
A marathon.

547
00:28:48,270 --> 00:28:51,810
Oh, I got that 20, 26 point.

548
00:28:52,740 --> 00:28:54,840
I know that I got that
'cause I just did that.

549
00:28:54,840 --> 00:28:55,620
I just did a marathon.

550
00:28:55,620 --> 00:28:59,370
I understand what it takes to run
a marathon, but 112 miles on the

551
00:28:59,370 --> 00:29:01,530
bike and then swim over two miles.

552
00:29:01,935 --> 00:29:03,585
Like I couldn't comprehend.

553
00:29:03,855 --> 00:29:07,815
So I had to understand what it
takes and the pain and the time

554
00:29:07,815 --> 00:29:09,675
involved for that to be true.

555
00:29:10,215 --> 00:29:12,615
And that's how we have to look
at it, what it is that we're

556
00:29:12,615 --> 00:29:14,295
trying to accomplish in our lives.

557
00:29:14,295 --> 00:29:16,395
That's why I don't believe
you commit and figure it out.

558
00:29:16,665 --> 00:29:19,965
Because if I'd have said,
yeah, I'm in then, but I, but I

559
00:29:19,965 --> 00:29:22,635
wouldn't have understood the time.

560
00:29:22,754 --> 00:29:27,525
'cause here's the thing, no matter what we
do in life, it always comes back to time.

561
00:29:28,365 --> 00:29:30,285
And I knew for me to be able to.

562
00:29:31,500 --> 00:29:36,899
Finish my, I, I won't get into the
story, but I ultimately, I tried

563
00:29:36,899 --> 00:29:38,820
to, I tried to run a full Ironman.

564
00:29:39,210 --> 00:29:40,560
On my, on my own.

565
00:29:41,280 --> 00:29:45,390
And, um, because I ran a marathon on my
own, I, I, you know, trained on my own.

566
00:29:45,390 --> 00:29:47,070
I learned, I tried to do it all on my own.

567
00:29:47,670 --> 00:29:50,310
And I had that aha in the mirror moment.

568
00:29:50,310 --> 00:29:52,080
I'm like, dude, you're the
biggest idiot on the planet.

569
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:54,960
You're a coach and like
you're not getting a coach.

570
00:29:55,020 --> 00:29:56,820
But when I got a coach, he had two rules.

571
00:29:56,820 --> 00:29:58,140
We finish and we don't die.

572
00:29:58,740 --> 00:30:01,110
Um, and that was it
because it got two rules.

573
00:30:01,170 --> 00:30:02,790
You finish and you don't die.

574
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,440
And so how do you build a
plan to finish and not die?

575
00:30:08,070 --> 00:30:12,300
And then I looked at it and I was
like, okay, what's the time that

576
00:30:12,300 --> 00:30:14,550
I need to finish and not die?

577
00:30:14,969 --> 00:30:17,909
And, and for me it came out
to be about 14 hours a week.

578
00:30:18,179 --> 00:30:22,020
And so I was like, okay, where can
I build 14 hours into the week?

579
00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:23,370
Do I have the support?

580
00:30:23,939 --> 00:30:25,949
And when I saw that, that was possible.

581
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,020
Then I knew I could commit.

582
00:30:28,770 --> 00:30:29,910
And a lot of people don't.

583
00:30:29,910 --> 00:30:32,940
That's why they fall short on
accomplishing things is because

584
00:30:33,300 --> 00:30:36,540
they don't take the time to
understand what it's gonna take.

585
00:30:36,810 --> 00:30:39,690
And then can they commit to that time?

586
00:30:39,900 --> 00:30:42,960
Can they sacrifice to that time?

587
00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:46,970
Um, and if more people would
take the time to do that, they

588
00:30:46,970 --> 00:30:48,500
would accomplish so much more.

589
00:30:48,800 --> 00:30:52,130
And so it was just a aha moment
for me and it's like, geez, I'm,

590
00:30:52,130 --> 00:30:55,280
you know, been on this planet for
almost 50 years and I didn't learn

591
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:57,200
that lesson until eight years ago.

592
00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:00,470
So it's, it's just, you know, remarkable.

593
00:31:00,470 --> 00:31:03,290
But that's, but that's also
staying as student always,

594
00:31:03,290 --> 00:31:04,400
always staying the student.

595
00:31:05,090 --> 00:31:07,550
I'll give you the kind of
a flip side of that one.

596
00:31:07,610 --> 00:31:10,130
LA last year at Agent
to CEOI did a little.

597
00:31:10,500 --> 00:31:14,130
A little session, putting some of the
principles into a thought experiment

598
00:31:14,130 --> 00:31:16,620
that said, if I had to start from
scratch and build a seven-figure real

599
00:31:16,620 --> 00:31:18,180
estate team, so good, what would I do?

600
00:31:18,750 --> 00:31:22,470
So I thought about it, this is, this
is what I would do if it was me, right?

601
00:31:22,470 --> 00:31:23,580
There's lots of ways to do it.

602
00:31:23,580 --> 00:31:24,510
This is what I would do.

603
00:31:24,870 --> 00:31:27,510
And it was, here's the lead
sources I'm gonna use, here's

604
00:31:27,510 --> 00:31:29,040
the VA team I'm gonna build.

605
00:31:29,430 --> 00:31:36,600
And I had somebody ask me, um, having
a drink, it might've been Travis.

606
00:31:37,455 --> 00:31:37,995
I'm not sure.

607
00:31:38,024 --> 00:31:40,845
Anyway, somebody asked me that that
evening after the event was done.

608
00:31:40,845 --> 00:31:41,115
I'm sure

609
00:31:41,115 --> 00:31:41,700
it was Trav.

610
00:31:43,635 --> 00:31:45,885
It was like, why, why don't
you, why don't you do it?

611
00:31:46,274 --> 00:31:50,655
Because at the time, I was, uh,
COO at Sphere Rocket, and, um, you

612
00:31:50,655 --> 00:31:53,235
know, what we're doing together now
wasn't even on the radar really.

613
00:31:53,235 --> 00:31:54,435
So why don't you do it?

614
00:31:54,435 --> 00:31:58,965
And I said, I'm not willing to, I'm
not willing to do what it takes to, to

615
00:31:59,024 --> 00:32:01,485
actually build that team and do that.

616
00:32:01,575 --> 00:32:04,064
I'm not willing to do the, the
sales calls it's gonna take.

617
00:32:04,064 --> 00:32:06,014
I'm not willing to do
the evening showings.

618
00:32:06,014 --> 00:32:06,645
It's gonna take.

619
00:32:07,034 --> 00:32:09,165
Not willing to do the Saturday
open houses that it's gonna

620
00:32:09,165 --> 00:32:10,695
take to do that version of it.

621
00:32:10,695 --> 00:32:11,024
Right.

622
00:32:11,324 --> 00:32:12,225
I'm not willing to do that.

623
00:32:12,435 --> 00:32:14,685
I, I know what it's gonna take
and I'm not willing to do it.

624
00:32:14,835 --> 00:32:16,635
And, and, and that's the answer.

625
00:32:16,635 --> 00:32:20,324
So it's same, same principle, but you
said, okay, I can, I can commit to this.

626
00:32:20,324 --> 00:32:22,274
And I said, I'm not
willing to commit to this.

627
00:32:22,665 --> 00:32:22,905
Yeah.

628
00:32:23,475 --> 00:32:23,625
Yeah.

629
00:32:23,625 --> 00:32:25,784
It's about pain threshold,
you know, are you willing to

630
00:32:25,784 --> 00:32:26,835
withstand that amount of pain?

631
00:32:26,985 --> 00:32:28,455
So it's, it's really good.

632
00:32:29,175 --> 00:32:29,565
Um,

633
00:32:29,625 --> 00:32:29,685
yeah.

634
00:32:29,685 --> 00:32:32,085
And, and what are, and what are
you willing to give up too, right?

635
00:32:32,955 --> 00:32:33,315
Yeah.

636
00:32:33,465 --> 00:32:34,335
That's the big thing.

637
00:32:34,425 --> 00:32:34,695
Do it.

638
00:32:35,505 --> 00:32:36,735
I wanna pause for a second.

639
00:32:36,735 --> 00:32:37,275
I know.

640
00:32:37,335 --> 00:32:39,615
Um, I wanna kind of keep
it to the power hour.

641
00:32:39,855 --> 00:32:40,065
Um.

642
00:32:41,100 --> 00:32:43,800
I know we got Trav bouncing and
out, look like he's traveling.

643
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,820
I know we got a couple other on here,
but if, um, anybody has any, you know, if

644
00:32:47,820 --> 00:32:49,560
you guys have any questions, let us know.

645
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:53,700
I mean, that's, we're going to,
uh, stay consistent with this time

646
00:32:53,700 --> 00:32:56,970
over the next few weeks leading
up to agent to CEO in Cleveland.

647
00:32:56,970 --> 00:32:59,010
But I do want to open it up for you guys.

648
00:32:59,010 --> 00:32:59,725
I mean, Joel and I can talk.

649
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:01,180
All day, every day.

650
00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:03,370
Um, it's what, what we do for a living.

651
00:33:03,760 --> 00:33:06,250
But I do wanna open it up if
you guys have any questions.

652
00:33:06,250 --> 00:33:09,970
Trav, if you have any questions, I know
Sarah and Marsha are, are, are on here.

653
00:33:09,970 --> 00:33:13,870
If you guys have any questions, I mean,
you can turn the camera on, turn your

654
00:33:13,870 --> 00:33:17,530
mic on, ask engage into the conversation
or you can throw it in the chat.

655
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,590
But anything that's on your mind,
anything that you guys are wrestling with.

656
00:33:20,590 --> 00:33:22,210
And here's the, here's,
here's the reality.

657
00:33:23,250 --> 00:33:27,750
We're all wrestling with something,
it's just being, being strong and

658
00:33:27,750 --> 00:33:31,379
vulnerable enough to throw the question
out there because you're really truly

659
00:33:31,379 --> 00:33:33,390
trying to, to solve the problem.

660
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:37,440
So, um, what I would always tell my
team is, if you don't have a constraint,

661
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:38,640
you're not trying hard enough.

662
00:33:39,270 --> 00:33:42,420
And it was just kind of a way
to kick 'em in the kick in the

663
00:33:42,420 --> 00:33:44,190
teeth a little bit to be like.

664
00:33:44,825 --> 00:33:46,205
What am I truly wrestling with?

665
00:33:46,205 --> 00:33:48,665
What is, what is stopping
me from making progress?

666
00:33:49,115 --> 00:33:51,185
And nine times outta 10, it's us.

667
00:33:51,245 --> 00:33:52,475
It's, it's in our heads.

668
00:33:52,535 --> 00:33:56,555
And that's why, you know, we start
agent to CEO with agent to CO mindset.

669
00:33:57,005 --> 00:34:02,765
And I'm, I'm super excited to who kind
of positioning to talk to us about

670
00:34:02,765 --> 00:34:05,735
mindset to kick things off because
they're way more, they're, they're

671
00:34:05,735 --> 00:34:07,025
way qualified to talk about it.

672
00:34:07,025 --> 00:34:08,345
So, um.

673
00:34:09,154 --> 00:34:10,264
I'll pause for a second.

674
00:34:10,324 --> 00:34:14,645
I, I do wanna come to my, my sauna
experience this morning, but, uh, yeah.

675
00:34:14,674 --> 00:34:18,815
What, um, if anybody's got any
questions, we would love to hear it.

676
00:34:29,045 --> 00:34:30,509
It's like Travis bouncing in and out.

677
00:34:31,029 --> 00:34:31,150
I.

678
00:34:41,399 --> 00:34:42,270
Nope, we lost him.

679
00:34:42,420 --> 00:34:44,279
All right, Joel, any thoughts?

680
00:34:44,279 --> 00:34:45,179
Any other things?

681
00:34:46,095 --> 00:34:46,545
Oh man.

682
00:34:46,545 --> 00:34:48,570
Let's get into, uh, I wanna
hear what you were, uh,

683
00:34:50,200 --> 00:34:51,585
what you were getting from Gary V this

684
00:34:51,585 --> 00:34:51,855
morning.

685
00:34:52,665 --> 00:34:57,375
So, you know, me, I, I, I cycle,
I cycle with Gary, um, kind of

686
00:34:57,375 --> 00:35:00,555
depending upon where, where, you
know, how, where he's at, right?

687
00:35:00,555 --> 00:35:02,125
If he's on V Friends or if he's.

688
00:35:02,655 --> 00:35:06,915
You know, where, where you know all the
things that he's he's into, but when he

689
00:35:06,915 --> 00:35:13,545
comes back around to, you know, talking,
talking business, talking, um, I'll

690
00:35:13,545 --> 00:35:15,825
dabble when he's back into the wine stuff.

691
00:35:15,825 --> 00:35:19,425
But more so on the business side of
things, I, I, you know, tuned right

692
00:35:19,425 --> 00:35:29,295
back in and I was listening to one of
his, um, keynotes that he posted about.

693
00:35:29,970 --> 00:35:35,730
Last week, about six days, seven
days ago in, um, on YouTube.

694
00:35:35,790 --> 00:35:37,110
I tried to find it on the podcast.

695
00:35:37,110 --> 00:35:38,370
He doesn't have it up on the podcast.

696
00:35:38,370 --> 00:35:40,170
I think he has a little bit of a teaser.

697
00:35:40,170 --> 00:35:42,120
I think he's doing a little
bit of teaser trailer.

698
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:47,790
He might be trying to drive from, um,
from Facebook or Instagram to YouTube.

699
00:35:47,820 --> 00:35:49,735
So he's always testing
things like that's why he's.

700
00:35:50,345 --> 00:35:54,754
So important to pay attention to because
he's such at the forefront of testing

701
00:35:54,754 --> 00:35:56,915
things and being able to see things.

702
00:35:57,665 --> 00:36:02,225
And um, I was, I was sitting in the
sauna listening to the keynote and, um,

703
00:36:02,495 --> 00:36:06,154
there, typically it's just me in there,
but, uh, I got in there this morning.

704
00:36:06,154 --> 00:36:06,875
There was another guy in there.

705
00:36:07,925 --> 00:36:11,375
And I've got the, I got the earbuds
on and I'm just, I'm just like

706
00:36:11,375 --> 00:36:12,575
watching, watching, watching.

707
00:36:13,145 --> 00:36:15,065
And, um, he, he taps me on the deal.

708
00:36:15,065 --> 00:36:16,535
I'm just like, you know,
dude, we're in towels.

709
00:36:16,535 --> 00:36:17,375
Like, what are you doing man?

710
00:36:17,705 --> 00:36:21,095
And, um, and so I, uh, I said, Hey, yeah.

711
00:36:21,095 --> 00:36:22,355
And he's like, is that Gary V?

712
00:36:22,715 --> 00:36:23,705
And I was like, yeah.

713
00:36:23,705 --> 00:36:24,215
He's like.

714
00:36:24,529 --> 00:36:29,360
Dude, I just, I, I, I just found him
and I'm like, you just found him?

715
00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:33,470
Like, what do you, like, you've been
living under a rock for the last 20 years.

716
00:36:33,470 --> 00:36:34,520
Like, what are you doing?

717
00:36:34,910 --> 00:36:39,290
And, um, he goes, yeah, I'm,
I'm big into collecting cards.

718
00:36:40,725 --> 00:36:46,185
And he goes, I like his just obsession
with cards and, and things like that.

719
00:36:46,185 --> 00:36:49,904
And he starts going on and telling me,
and I'm like, dude, that is so awesome.

720
00:36:50,294 --> 00:36:51,734
But that's another lesson, right?

721
00:36:51,734 --> 00:36:56,444
To where like you let your love and
your hobbies and get out and you

722
00:36:56,444 --> 00:37:01,125
just create the content around it and
you never know who you're gonna grab

723
00:37:01,395 --> 00:37:04,225
to be able to pull in and uh, uh.

724
00:37:04,650 --> 00:37:08,880
I'll kind of lead into the whole point
of what Gary's thinking about and the

725
00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:14,220
thing that I know you and I are pushing
and we're pushing on all of our clients.

726
00:37:15,540 --> 00:37:18,360
And so we were kind of going back and
I was like, yeah, that, that's cool.

727
00:37:18,360 --> 00:37:19,529
And he said, how about you, whatever.

728
00:37:19,529 --> 00:37:22,470
And I was like, I was like, dude, I go
back to the 'cause he's talking about,

729
00:37:22,470 --> 00:37:25,650
you know, then, then I understood
that he loved the wine and I'm like.

730
00:37:26,190 --> 00:37:28,950
I go back that far, I
go back before crush it.

731
00:37:29,010 --> 00:37:34,380
Well, I go back before crush it even came
out and like he told us to go buy the

732
00:37:34,380 --> 00:37:38,460
little camera that flipped open and had
the little USB port that you plugged in.

733
00:37:38,460 --> 00:37:39,540
And that was the camera.

734
00:37:40,260 --> 00:37:45,240
And I said, I go back to those Gary
V days and you know, I, I thought of

735
00:37:45,240 --> 00:37:48,630
all the times that I almost pulled the
trigger to go to New York to go there.

736
00:37:48,630 --> 00:37:51,900
And I'm like, damn, why didn't
I just pull the trigger and go?

737
00:37:52,320 --> 00:37:53,400
But um.

738
00:37:54,015 --> 00:38:00,375
The message was, was he was speaking
to marketing agencies in the keynote.

739
00:38:00,405 --> 00:38:03,765
You can go find it, it's seven days
ago, but he's talking about 24 months.

740
00:38:06,075 --> 00:38:11,895
And essentially what he's talking about
is where AI will be in 24 months, that

741
00:38:11,985 --> 00:38:17,085
you won't be able to recognize the AI
influencers from the real influencers.

742
00:38:18,405 --> 00:38:20,240
And he said, that's about
the window that we have.

743
00:38:21,255 --> 00:38:24,405
Not trying to play doomsday, not
saying it's not gonna play out this

744
00:38:24,405 --> 00:38:26,025
way, or it's gonna play out this way.

745
00:38:27,435 --> 00:38:30,645
What I am saying is that the
landscape is changing and

746
00:38:30,645 --> 00:38:32,295
it's changing very, very fast.

747
00:38:33,045 --> 00:38:36,255
We don't have time to sit back and coast.

748
00:38:36,735 --> 00:38:38,775
You have to be diligent.

749
00:38:38,775 --> 00:38:43,575
You have to be intentional, you
have to be proactive, and you have

750
00:38:43,575 --> 00:38:49,215
to be, how do I need to reinvent
myself to where I don't get replaced?

751
00:38:49,980 --> 00:38:53,370
I don't get wiped off the table.

752
00:38:54,420 --> 00:38:58,830
Um, the other, the other statistic,
I'll come back to Gary VI sent it to,

753
00:38:58,920 --> 00:39:04,200
to, um, the Mastermind and I don't know
Trav if you got to listen to it or Joel

754
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:08,160
if you listen to it, but it was the
conversation with Brenda Bouchard and Ed

755
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:10,885
Millet last week, maybe two weeks ago.

756
00:39:14,295 --> 00:39:18,255
It's a fantastic conversation
around doubt and how to overcome

757
00:39:18,255 --> 00:39:20,085
and how to reframe doubt.

758
00:39:20,445 --> 00:39:26,535
And you talk about two best humans
alive on the planet to reframe

759
00:39:26,895 --> 00:39:28,575
anything and reframe doubt.

760
00:39:29,085 --> 00:39:32,009
Ed Millet and Brenda Burchard,
they're like the best on the planet.

761
00:39:32,009 --> 00:39:37,005
It, and they didn't get into it,
but Brendan said something at

762
00:39:37,005 --> 00:39:40,725
the end of that conversation,
it was about a 45 minute Ed's.

763
00:39:41,490 --> 00:39:45,000
You can't say 45 minutes, maybe
20 minutes with all of his ads and

764
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:48,960
everything else inside of there,
which is another, another thing.

765
00:39:50,850 --> 00:39:56,130
But Brendan said, and so br Brendan's,
like, you can argue maybe one of the

766
00:39:56,130 --> 00:39:57,660
most connected humans on the planet.

767
00:39:59,070 --> 00:40:01,650
I don't know how connected
he is into the tech world.

768
00:40:01,650 --> 00:40:03,750
I would love to hear, um.

769
00:40:04,365 --> 00:40:10,605
You know, the, the, the Horowitz and,
and, uh, you know, uh, side, side,

770
00:40:10,605 --> 00:40:12,825
side of the world take on everything.

771
00:40:14,265 --> 00:40:17,805
But he was saying about 18
months, I think is what he said,

772
00:40:18,795 --> 00:40:20,925
maybe 12, maybe 18, maybe 24.

773
00:40:21,405 --> 00:40:26,955
Um, I think it was 18 to 20,
24 months, 30% of the current

774
00:40:27,075 --> 00:40:29,955
job population will be gone.

775
00:40:30,990 --> 00:40:34,920
30%. So look at the number
of jobs reported right now.

776
00:40:35,190 --> 00:40:40,650
Subtract 30%, that's
what's going to be changed.

777
00:40:40,860 --> 00:40:45,300
I don't know if it's gone, I don't
know if it, I don't know what it is,

778
00:40:45,900 --> 00:40:53,130
but 30% of the jobs currently will
not be available in 18 to 24 months.

779
00:40:54,245 --> 00:40:58,530
Yeah, that's Brenda Bouchard saying
that, that's his crystal ball.

780
00:40:58,650 --> 00:41:02,940
I'm not, I'm not, I, I don't know
enough to, to, to back that up

781
00:41:02,940 --> 00:41:04,920
or, or poke holes in it or not.

782
00:41:06,210 --> 00:41:10,560
But I take somebody like him
that's saying that with Ed Millet

783
00:41:12,390 --> 00:41:13,830
and then you listen to Gary V

784
00:41:15,960 --> 00:41:18,750
talking about influence and talking about.

785
00:41:20,234 --> 00:41:23,205
Legacy branding, legacy marketing.

786
00:41:24,105 --> 00:41:26,024
And Gary's saying 24 months.

787
00:41:26,625 --> 00:41:28,694
So what does that mean?

788
00:41:29,745 --> 00:41:32,654
What that means is the next 12 to
18 months, everything's gonna be

789
00:41:32,654 --> 00:41:34,395
completely different than it is today.

790
00:41:36,524 --> 00:41:37,904
So what are you doing?

791
00:41:39,194 --> 00:41:44,714
And if you understand, everything
is a conveyor belt and there's

792
00:41:44,714 --> 00:41:45,915
a constraint somewhere.

793
00:41:47,924 --> 00:41:55,305
Results, behavior, feelings,
thoughts, environment.

794
00:41:56,685 --> 00:41:58,035
That's the results framework.

795
00:42:00,464 --> 00:42:05,505
So if you're not getting in the rooms
and you're not having conversations and

796
00:42:05,955 --> 00:42:10,634
creating the right circumstances, you
don't stand a chance on the results.

797
00:42:12,495 --> 00:42:15,315
And what Gary, Gary was
talking about is like, listen.

798
00:42:18,465 --> 00:42:26,925
You have to have to focus on
the creative more than anything.

799
00:42:27,795 --> 00:42:30,645
That's what he was talking
about and he's like, listen,

800
00:42:30,675 --> 00:42:32,235
there's gonna be so much noise.

801
00:42:32,235 --> 00:42:34,305
How do you break from the noise?

802
00:42:35,475 --> 00:42:40,215
So my thought, and this is just a thought.

803
00:42:41,175 --> 00:42:47,265
Maybe a be a recommendation, maybe you
might really want to consider this is

804
00:42:47,265 --> 00:42:53,175
go to VaynerMedia and you go Look at
every company VaynerMedia is representing

805
00:42:54,435 --> 00:42:59,745
who they're working with, and then go
follow every one of those companies.

806
00:43:01,005 --> 00:43:05,205
Gary's take is like, listen, this
is the only thing we've bet on

807
00:43:05,205 --> 00:43:07,125
the last 15 years of VaynerMedia.

808
00:43:11,670 --> 00:43:12,510
Views

809
00:43:14,820 --> 00:43:17,430
sales 'cause that's it.

810
00:43:18,240 --> 00:43:23,430
He goes, the only thing we pay attention
to is how many views are you getting

811
00:43:24,150 --> 00:43:27,210
and how many sales is that equaling.

812
00:43:29,069 --> 00:43:34,319
He said something that I love, he said,
the only thing that I want you to judge

813
00:43:34,319 --> 00:43:37,560
me on is the health of your business.

814
00:43:37,799 --> 00:43:41,129
At the end of our agreement, the
end of our time working together,

815
00:43:42,390 --> 00:43:44,040
what is the health of your business?

816
00:43:44,850 --> 00:43:46,470
Joel, you and I know what health means.

817
00:43:46,500 --> 00:43:47,819
Health means how much cash do you have?

818
00:43:49,109 --> 00:43:49,680
That's it.

819
00:43:49,919 --> 00:43:50,819
How much cash do you have?

820
00:43:51,779 --> 00:43:54,660
And cash is oxygen for your business?

821
00:43:54,689 --> 00:43:56,189
How much oxygen do you have?

822
00:43:56,189 --> 00:43:57,330
What's your oxygen level?

823
00:43:58,440 --> 00:44:03,210
He said, that's the only thing, and
people want to talk about this metric

824
00:44:03,210 --> 00:44:05,910
and this metric and this metric,
and this metric and this metric.

825
00:44:06,240 --> 00:44:09,660
And he goes, I couldn't be simple
to people because they want

826
00:44:09,660 --> 00:44:12,569
to, like, they, they would've
never allowed us in the door.

827
00:44:13,710 --> 00:44:15,450
The only thing that matters.

828
00:44:15,480 --> 00:44:17,790
And he goes, listen, do not spend a penny.

829
00:44:18,509 --> 00:44:26,430
And I thought of you, Trav, don't
spend a penny on ads until organically.

830
00:44:27,765 --> 00:44:30,075
You have something that
can actually get views.

831
00:44:31,424 --> 00:44:35,444
When you have something organically
that can get views, then you put

832
00:44:35,444 --> 00:44:36,794
your marketing budget behind it.

833
00:44:37,634 --> 00:44:39,524
But he goes, it's all about the creative.

834
00:44:40,544 --> 00:44:45,585
All about the creative and what you
have to, to make sure what you're

835
00:44:45,585 --> 00:44:50,234
measuring is that your views equal sales.

836
00:44:51,254 --> 00:44:51,600
And I was like.

837
00:44:52,635 --> 00:44:53,235
Got it.

838
00:44:53,505 --> 00:44:57,675
Like in typical Gear V fashion,
like he'll say things that I like

839
00:44:58,185 --> 00:44:59,745
and then he'll say things that go.

840
00:45:00,405 --> 00:45:00,795
Got it.

841
00:45:01,635 --> 00:45:07,785
So what I'm looking at, and this is what
I want to push to everybody, is like

842
00:45:08,445 --> 00:45:12,795
if you are not dominating our focused
priority number one on organic social,

843
00:45:12,795 --> 00:45:15,645
you have the wrong priority period.

844
00:45:16,305 --> 00:45:20,175
Organic social, not paid,
social, organic, social.

845
00:45:21,390 --> 00:45:24,720
Understand the algorithms
are playing to interest.

846
00:45:25,470 --> 00:45:28,380
Are you creating enough stuff that's
creating enough interest for your

847
00:45:28,380 --> 00:45:30,630
target audience that has money?

848
00:45:31,905 --> 00:45:32,415
Right.

849
00:45:32,565 --> 00:45:34,875
There's buyers and sellers, but
there's buyers and sellers that

850
00:45:34,875 --> 00:45:38,145
are desperate that need money, and
there's buyers that have money.

851
00:45:38,505 --> 00:45:41,655
Stop playing with sellers that, that
don't need the money and stop playing

852
00:45:41,655 --> 00:45:43,155
with buyers that don't have any money.

853
00:45:43,635 --> 00:45:47,805
Like, you gotta go where the money is,
where's, where's, where's your money?

854
00:45:48,435 --> 00:45:49,275
Go get your money.

855
00:45:49,725 --> 00:45:55,215
Create views and and content
for the people that have money.

856
00:45:56,010 --> 00:45:59,070
That's the, that's, that's
the, that's the filter, man.

857
00:45:59,220 --> 00:46:04,800
And then you gotta make sure that those
views are going to equal business metrics,

858
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:08,460
which are sales and that it's gonna
get your company in a healthy position.

859
00:46:08,970 --> 00:46:12,750
That was my lesson man this morning,
listening to, to Gary, you know,

860
00:46:12,750 --> 00:46:14,610
the, this sonic conversation.

861
00:46:15,090 --> 00:46:18,180
But it was really like, like, dude,
I, like, I pulled out the notes and

862
00:46:18,180 --> 00:46:19,980
I just started rifting like crazy.

863
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:23,670
And so I. Yeah, that's where my head is.

864
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:27,509
Um, you know, always
thinking like the CEO, right?

865
00:46:27,509 --> 00:46:30,000
Just the agent to CEO
mindset more than anything.

866
00:46:30,000 --> 00:46:33,090
And listen, every day
is a freaking battle.

867
00:46:33,630 --> 00:46:36,750
Like every day is a battle and everything.

868
00:46:36,810 --> 00:46:39,120
And there's a, there, there's,
there's a distraction and there's a

869
00:46:39,120 --> 00:46:40,860
reason not to go to work every day.

870
00:46:42,000 --> 00:46:44,465
Joel, your son, sick.

871
00:46:44,700 --> 00:46:46,980
You have, you have a reason, you
have a reason not to get after it.

872
00:46:46,980 --> 00:46:50,340
Today, Trav, we're, we're,
we're all going through shit.

873
00:46:51,030 --> 00:46:53,520
There's always a reason not
to get after it every day,

874
00:46:56,250 --> 00:46:58,560
but we also have a bigger reason
why we gotta get after it every day.

875
00:46:59,490 --> 00:46:59,700
Yeah.

876
00:46:59,880 --> 00:47:02,640
And that's the leadership mentality
because listen, there's so many

877
00:47:02,640 --> 00:47:05,340
people that are looking to us for
direction and so many people that are

878
00:47:05,340 --> 00:47:10,200
looking to you for support, guidance,
and Joel, what's, what's the word?

879
00:47:10,530 --> 00:47:13,230
What, what is, what are people
looking for from, from their leaders?

880
00:47:15,330 --> 00:47:15,570
Hope

881
00:47:17,940 --> 00:47:18,420
that's it.

882
00:47:19,110 --> 00:47:22,380
Statistically 52 countries polled.

883
00:47:23,160 --> 00:47:28,320
The number one thing people are
looking for from their leaders is hope.

884
00:47:29,759 --> 00:47:30,299
Is hope.

885
00:47:30,870 --> 00:47:36,090
Now, hope's not a strategy, but
hope in the way to being able

886
00:47:36,090 --> 00:47:37,950
to paint a big, big vision.

887
00:47:38,790 --> 00:47:41,100
And you know, you know,
you know I'm a vision guy.

888
00:47:41,549 --> 00:47:43,440
Without a vision, the village will perish.

889
00:47:43,620 --> 00:47:46,020
And if people don't believe they can
accomplish their dreams by being a

890
00:47:46,020 --> 00:47:48,450
part of your vision, they're gone.

891
00:47:49,580 --> 00:47:50,810
Discipline equals freedom.

892
00:47:51,319 --> 00:47:52,940
You know, the thing with discipline.

893
00:47:53,660 --> 00:47:55,250
You know, Mike Tyson said it best, right?

894
00:47:55,279 --> 00:47:57,470
It's just doing the things you don't
want to do that you know you need

895
00:47:57,470 --> 00:47:58,580
to do when you don't wanna do it.

896
00:47:59,330 --> 00:48:01,549
I mean, you just do, you
just do the things required.

897
00:48:01,580 --> 00:48:06,319
It's the, it, remember, it's
the necessary required actions.

898
00:48:06,380 --> 00:48:10,370
It's not the required actions, it's
the necessary required actions.

899
00:48:10,700 --> 00:48:15,290
It's the things, it's, it,
it, it's the, it's the right.

900
00:48:15,290 --> 00:48:16,910
KPIs is what it is.

901
00:48:17,450 --> 00:48:19,400
And so I started to look.

902
00:48:21,200 --> 00:48:22,039
Your content.

903
00:48:22,039 --> 00:48:23,959
We know organic social
is the number one thing.

904
00:48:26,870 --> 00:48:29,419
I know the webinar people out
there, I know the ad people out

905
00:48:29,419 --> 00:48:30,620
there, they won't agree with me.

906
00:48:31,910 --> 00:48:34,129
It is organic social views

907
00:48:36,740 --> 00:48:48,859
that lead to a way to create engagement
that lead to conversations that lead to.

908
00:48:49,370 --> 00:48:54,920
Asking for and setting an appointment
and meeting with people and

909
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,860
articulating your value in getting
them to agree to work with you.

910
00:48:59,810 --> 00:49:05,120
You don't need to worry about the rest if
you just focused on this beginning part

911
00:49:05,540 --> 00:49:07,820
and only the things within your control

912
00:49:09,950 --> 00:49:11,150
and stop the noise.

913
00:49:11,720 --> 00:49:12,259
That's it.

914
00:49:13,730 --> 00:49:16,880
And remember, noise can't find you.

915
00:49:17,299 --> 00:49:19,519
If they can't find you, they,
they can't interrupt you.

916
00:49:20,899 --> 00:49:25,609
I was talking with somebody earlier
today, just like I go put my phone

917
00:49:25,759 --> 00:49:30,019
on the charger in the other room and
I'll come back three hours later.

918
00:49:31,009 --> 00:49:31,309
Cool.

919
00:49:32,929 --> 00:49:34,909
If they can't find you,
they can't interrupt you.

920
00:49:39,155 --> 00:49:45,815
A very high profile, a very expensive
coach that she would kick my butt

921
00:49:45,815 --> 00:49:49,775
every, every time I talked to her,
and it was all around organic social.

922
00:49:49,775 --> 00:49:51,755
Like, listen, I know it.

923
00:49:52,145 --> 00:49:53,975
I know, I know it is right.

924
00:49:54,335 --> 00:49:57,725
And I know it's the answer because
that's where the eyeballs are, right?

925
00:49:57,725 --> 00:49:59,075
We go where the attention is.

926
00:50:00,169 --> 00:50:05,089
This is the best framework, and I
got this from one of my, um, very

927
00:50:05,089 --> 00:50:06,979
best friends, very dear friends.

928
00:50:08,029 --> 00:50:10,549
Um, who's actually gonna be an
agent to CEO, Mr. Blake Sloan.

929
00:50:10,549 --> 00:50:14,209
It's the first time that him and I
have ever been on stage together, and

930
00:50:14,839 --> 00:50:17,269
what he teaches, I think is perfect.

931
00:50:17,615 --> 00:50:19,264
He calls it the triangle, the social.

932
00:50:19,325 --> 00:50:20,314
The social triangle.

933
00:50:21,604 --> 00:50:24,634
Number one is people have to know that
you're a real estate professional.

934
00:50:24,845 --> 00:50:26,284
They have to know you're in real estate.

935
00:50:26,524 --> 00:50:28,894
They have to know, they have
to know that you sell houses.

936
00:50:28,894 --> 00:50:32,345
They have to know that you help
people, um, sell their home,

937
00:50:32,345 --> 00:50:33,694
help people get into homes.

938
00:50:33,694 --> 00:50:36,034
If you wanna work with investors,
they need to know that.

939
00:50:36,034 --> 00:50:36,454
They need to know.

940
00:50:36,454 --> 00:50:38,914
If you work with builders,
they need to know what you do.

941
00:50:39,244 --> 00:50:40,174
You gotta pay the bills.

942
00:50:41,164 --> 00:50:44,194
Number two is they need to
know you're a good human being.

943
00:50:44,930 --> 00:50:46,279
So what does that mean to you?

944
00:50:46,549 --> 00:50:47,629
What is important to you?

945
00:50:47,930 --> 00:50:49,400
Is your faith important to you?

946
00:50:49,609 --> 00:50:51,470
Is your spirituality important to you?

947
00:50:51,470 --> 00:50:52,940
Is your fitness important to you?

948
00:50:52,940 --> 00:50:56,210
Is your mental, you know, fitness
is your, is your emotional

949
00:50:56,330 --> 00:50:57,950
is what is important to you?

950
00:50:57,950 --> 00:50:58,850
What do you love?

951
00:50:58,850 --> 00:50:59,509
What do what, what?

952
00:51:01,790 --> 00:51:04,339
Can people know that
you're a good human being?

953
00:51:05,210 --> 00:51:10,460
And the third of the triangle is that
you're an ambassador for your community.

954
00:51:11,120 --> 00:51:15,650
You are showcasing all the things that
you love, that people need to know about,

955
00:51:15,650 --> 00:51:19,430
that they might, that they can't find
on TripAdvisor about your community.

956
00:51:19,430 --> 00:51:21,560
And that's the triangle.

957
00:51:22,609 --> 00:51:25,100
You could do three posts a day.

958
00:51:25,370 --> 00:51:27,859
One that you're in real estate, one
that you're a good human, one, that

959
00:51:27,859 --> 00:51:29,270
you're an ambassador for your community.

960
00:51:29,390 --> 00:51:30,080
There you go.

961
00:51:31,160 --> 00:51:33,859
The second thing that you,
you, you need to think about.

962
00:51:33,890 --> 00:51:34,640
I don't even know a second.

963
00:51:34,640 --> 00:51:35,689
I don't even know if
this is the right order.

964
00:51:35,689 --> 00:51:37,100
I'd have to think about
right things, right order.

965
00:51:38,209 --> 00:51:39,829
What is your value proposition?

966
00:51:39,859 --> 00:51:40,910
Who is your client?

967
00:51:40,910 --> 00:51:41,839
Who do you work with?

968
00:51:42,049 --> 00:51:44,059
So we have, I have a lifelong client.

969
00:51:44,059 --> 00:51:45,139
She's a great friend.

970
00:51:45,439 --> 00:51:46,279
Joel Trav?

971
00:51:46,789 --> 00:51:48,769
No, her, her name's Renee Velasquez.

972
00:51:48,769 --> 00:51:51,139
She's in, she's in, uh, northeastern Ohio.

973
00:51:51,139 --> 00:51:52,999
She's in, outside of Cleveland area.

974
00:51:54,379 --> 00:52:00,259
She specializes in, in families that
are going through that last transition.

975
00:52:00,799 --> 00:52:01,819
They've either.

976
00:52:03,005 --> 00:52:07,085
Parents that are, that know this is
the last move, so they gotta set it up.

977
00:52:07,775 --> 00:52:09,845
Kiddos that take over or inherit.

978
00:52:10,370 --> 00:52:14,120
Or it goes in being
left off to a relative.

979
00:52:14,120 --> 00:52:17,000
'cause there's no, there's no
immediate siblings or things

980
00:52:17,000 --> 00:52:18,710
like that, that's her specialty.

981
00:52:19,759 --> 00:52:30,620
And, and so she has to create that content
around who her ideal target audience is.

982
00:52:30,980 --> 00:52:35,180
Well, we know obviously 50 and
above is her target audience.

983
00:52:35,660 --> 00:52:37,315
Well guess where 50 and above live.

984
00:52:38,629 --> 00:52:40,190
50 and above live on Facebook.

985
00:52:41,000 --> 00:52:46,250
So her platform has to be Facebook because
that's where her audience is Now you're

986
00:52:46,250 --> 00:52:48,080
like, Hey, I work with this demographic.

987
00:52:48,080 --> 00:52:51,080
They're typically first time home
buyers, or they're in this era,

988
00:52:51,080 --> 00:52:52,430
or whatever, da da da, da, da.

989
00:52:53,569 --> 00:52:55,069
I'd be willing to bet their own Instagram.

990
00:52:56,015 --> 00:53:00,850
I would be 100% willing to bet
they're on Instagram and TikTok.

991
00:53:01,745 --> 00:53:02,525
So guess what?

992
00:53:02,615 --> 00:53:08,944
Your audience and where you need to go
all in would be Instagram and TikTok and

993
00:53:08,944 --> 00:53:15,305
focus on what does it take to dominate
and create, you know, content, relevant

994
00:53:15,305 --> 00:53:18,035
content that is gonna get the most views.

995
00:53:18,709 --> 00:53:21,049
On Instagram and TikTok.

996
00:53:21,259 --> 00:53:23,209
Now, you don't have to come
up with this on your own.

997
00:53:23,720 --> 00:53:26,179
You have a, you have a
good friend called ai.

998
00:53:26,720 --> 00:53:29,389
Probably easier for
you would be Chad, GPT.

999
00:53:30,139 --> 00:53:37,639
And if you have not read the uh, AI Driven
Leader, you have to read AI Driven Leader.

1000
00:53:37,639 --> 00:53:40,669
It's so fun to see everybody that's
catching on and reading it and the

1001
00:53:40,669 --> 00:53:42,919
way they're talking about it and
the way they're thinking about it.

1002
00:53:43,519 --> 00:53:45,859
But if you read Jeff, Jeff Wood's book.

1003
00:53:47,029 --> 00:53:51,380
Jeff with a g um, Jeff Wood's
book, AI driven leader.

1004
00:53:51,380 --> 00:53:55,940
Then you'll start to understand how
you use AI as your thought partner

1005
00:53:56,360 --> 00:53:58,190
and you start to ask it questions.

1006
00:53:58,279 --> 00:54:01,430
So you can go in and say, Hey,
you know, this is my market.

1007
00:54:01,460 --> 00:54:02,960
This is my target audience.

1008
00:54:02,960 --> 00:54:04,880
This is my, my, my clientele.

1009
00:54:04,910 --> 00:54:06,319
This is who I love working with.

1010
00:54:06,799 --> 00:54:08,029
This is my skillset.

1011
00:54:08,029 --> 00:54:09,740
These are my strengths,
these are my weaknesses.

1012
00:54:10,669 --> 00:54:15,560
Um, I would love for you to help
me build out a campaign to target

1013
00:54:15,649 --> 00:54:20,029
and create consistent content to
let people know I'm a real estate

1014
00:54:20,029 --> 00:54:22,970
agent, I'm a good human being, and
I'm an ambassador for my community.

1015
00:54:23,569 --> 00:54:27,620
Ask me one question at a time until
you have enough information to be

1016
00:54:27,620 --> 00:54:32,359
able to help me build out the perfect
campaign to be able to target.

1017
00:54:33,274 --> 00:54:34,144
Just let it run.

1018
00:54:34,444 --> 00:54:37,144
And it's gonna, honestly, it'll, it'll,
it'll give you everything you need

1019
00:54:37,144 --> 00:54:42,544
to know, but you have to be how you
think about it and leverage AI as your

1020
00:54:42,544 --> 00:54:45,274
thought partner, not the thought leader.

1021
00:54:46,354 --> 00:54:47,794
You are the thought leader.

1022
00:54:48,754 --> 00:54:53,794
AI is the thought partner that's gonna
help you overcome things that you like

1023
00:54:53,794 --> 00:54:58,984
are gonna exhaust your, all your brain
cells and energy trying to figure out.

1024
00:54:59,404 --> 00:55:00,305
So I would.

1025
00:55:01,549 --> 00:55:02,930
Appreciate you brother Marcia.

1026
00:55:02,930 --> 00:55:03,319
Great.

1027
00:55:03,410 --> 00:55:03,830
Hopefully.

1028
00:55:03,950 --> 00:55:04,310
See you guys.

1029
00:55:04,310 --> 00:55:04,850
See you guys.

1030
00:55:05,060 --> 00:55:05,299
Bye.

1031
00:55:08,689 --> 00:55:09,560
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1032
00:55:09,950 --> 00:55:14,419
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1033
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1037
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